This girl broke up with her guy 2 mnth back[a r/s that last only 3weeks].
She knows I got a thing for her when she and her guy were together 1 week into their relationship.[she forced the confession out from my mouth as she kept asking me why am I so intrested to know if she's attached or not]
so 1 mnth after she broke up,a guy added her on Facebook via our friend and at that point of time she was still really down.

While she was getting over her ex,she did flirt with her words online.
Once she did asked me out and during then she asked if that particular girl I talked to is attached and whether I'm still talking with that particular model.
2 week into knowing each other,he hug her randomly and begin playing with her hair while they were waiting for the bus?

Few days later,the guy asked to walk home together and on the same week,love poem too and start asking her out and within 2 weeks ask her to go over to his house for movies and she did.
I asked her why she let that guy do that to her and she gave me "It's only a hug and i know my limits,i don't see why you're so affected"
That was when the strain came and this is when their whole intimacy begin accelerating.

once she even lied on his bed and even cab down to his house because he wanted company.
she kept telling me she doesn't like him but her action speaks otherwise.. :confused:


They were so close physically and yet when I asked her if she likes the guy she told me "no,he's not bf material"
His blog were full of sweet words and confession for the girl.There were already confession on his blog just after he met her and he did that despite knowing the girl knowing his blog but he pretends the girl earsed the bookmark of his blog and asking readers to not let out his confession.
I don't know what the girl is thinking because when he said whether she will respond to his moves on his blog,she replied "who says i won't."
they got together 1 week ago and he's saying he wish the girl would spend time at his new apartment on the weekends.
Is he a player or is she on the rebound?or both are in for the fun?



The strain came when I approched her asking her the reason she let the guy hug her.
She said "it's just a hug"
Is this how girl works?
I told her I was feeling bad that she would allowed that guy to hug her without feeling anything and then she told me things along the lines like "if ur so bitter than don't bother knowing about my life" and she shut her blog private the following night.
I just find it hard to believe a girl would let a guy get touchy with her after a breakup and worst still,not couples.
As for the guy, he seem to be a typical player who moves exceptionally fast.
When I decided to make it known via msn personal message I'm moving on after knowing they're together, she immed IM and went "cool,it's great to know ur moving on and i prefer u this way!" and all kinds of "u know it's just not possible between us"
why is she trying to rub it in?
Now they just got attached for 2 weeks and I hope anyone can provide insights as to whether this guy is a player or whether this girl is on the rebound or are they both in it for the fun?friends with benefits?

She hardly talks to me now or should I say,we don't talk like before except few days back when she discovered I had a blog,IMed me about it and that's it.

Why do I get the feeling she's flirting with me or using me as a keeper?

Any inputs?
I'm quite concern for her as a friend despite moving on.
But I need to know if she's playing the same game because if that's the case,I'll be leaving her to her own.