He loves me but left me
My boyfriend of 8 months, professed his love to me constantly by text, e-mail and in person. He was desperate for us to move in together and to make a commitment. I have been renovating my flat so needed to complete that job first but always said I was excited about moving in together.
Last Thursday we spoke at length about our future plans and planned to book a holiday that weekend so were really excited. Then on Friday, my ex came round to do some electrical work at my flat and then my boyfriend (now ex) came home so wasn't too happy about my previous ex being there, but said he understood that this saved me money.
We went to his friends for dinner and they made me feel very uncomfortable. We got home and argued about this and he felt I was being a nasty person after too much to drink. He left and went back to his own flat and refused to see me the next day. On Sunday we agreed to meet to discuss everything and he wouldn't stop holding my hand and touching me, saying he loved me. We got back together and had a great reconciliation, then when we were sat at night, he said he doesn't know if he wants to be with me - the shock I felt! He's not been very specific but has said he needs time to think and doesn't expect me to wait, so I ended up leaving his flat saying I agreed. If he needed time to think, I don't think he was really that into the whole relationship. I'm now shell-shocked and don't understand what's gone wrong.:confused: I've heard nothing from him since.
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