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    chidobu adanma Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 25, 2013, 08:08 PM
    He left me when I was one month pregnant
    We have been dating for 3moths and I realized I was pregnant.. he asked that I bort d child I said OK that I will take pills to abort it but neva this.. he found out I lied from my phone chat with a friend and left ,now be doesn't want me anymore but his attitude changed into a loving one towrds ourittle girl when she was born a month ago but he still doesn't want me because he said I lied to him trying to trap him with the pregnancy.
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    Oct 25, 2013, 08:09 PM
    What's your question?
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    Oct 25, 2013, 08:18 PM
    He left me when I was one month pregnant
    how do I get him to accept me and our child I still do love him.
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    Oct 25, 2013, 08:23 PM
    Sounds like he has accepted his child, and loves her. As for you, the two of you only dated for 3 months, that's hardly a relationship. Sounds like he moved on, but has accepted his responsibility as a father. He doesn't have to have a relationship with you to be a dad, and it doesn't sound like he wants a relationship with you.

    I'd let it go and move on.
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    Oct 28, 2013, 10:12 AM
    Your relationship wasn't strong enough to begin with to consider bringing a baby into it. Sorry but even after many years together life doesn't always go quiet to plan. It sounds like you chose to have your baby which is good for you but although he has said he will see the baby this doesn't mean you will ever be partners again. Just take things one day at a time allow the relationship to grow between your baby and her father and if he hasn't moved on yet who knows what might happen.
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    Nov 5, 2013, 06:01 PM
    He loves his child and will always be a father to her, as far as you go, you messed things up by lying to him. Whether he decides to forgive you is completely up to him.
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