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    yourcute21 Posts: 28, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Jul 30, 2008, 09:48 PM
    Is he into me or using me?
    I recently started talking to this kid and we've hung out a few times and hooked up. I don't know how to tell if he's into me or not. He did say I'm a really chill girl and he wants to see me again. But the thing is he's leaving for college in a month and I don't want to get too attached. How can I tell if he's into me? And if he is how do I have fun with him without getting too attached?
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    ISneezeFunny Posts: 4,175, Reputation: 821
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    Jul 30, 2008, 09:58 PM
    You could always ask, but as you said, if he's leaving for college in a little bit, chances are, he doesn't want to get into anything.

    Take it easy, have your own life, don't make him your life. Simply enjoy getting to know someone.
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    #3

    Jul 30, 2008, 10:05 PM
    Well I can't give you more reputation, but I agree.

    He's starting a new phase of his life right now.
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    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
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    Jul 31, 2008, 05:47 AM
    He will be leaving, starting a new phase in life... doubt he wants something serious
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    #5

    Jul 31, 2008, 06:17 AM
    Just be his friend and nothing more. Him going away to school would only cause mixed emotions of trying to manage a long distance relationship and always wondering if you still mean as much or enough to him.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    #6

    Jul 31, 2008, 06:29 AM
    What does hooking up mean?
    We've hung out a few times and hooked up
    Sorry 'bout the age gap. You can be friends, and have fun, if there is no hanky-panky!
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    #7

    Jul 31, 2008, 07:19 AM
    Simply enjoy getting to know someone.
    Yes,with friendships,it's the best place to start :)

    People have been known (after a reasonable length of time) to start relationships
    Just by being friends first :)

    He's starting a new phase of his life right now.
    As for you,"yourcute21" this boy has college as his future...

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