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    headache Posts: 51, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 27, 2008, 08:52 AM
    Having trouble making conversation
    Hello all,

    I have been posting on here a lot the last couple weeks as I've been pretty stressed out, I am just trying to get a hold of myself and do whatever I can to better thes situations.

    So, if any of you read my previous posts at all, you might know that I recently met a girl that I'm crazy about 2 months ago, and now she is pregnant, so that's put a lot of stress on me. But also, her attitude towards me has completley changed since we found out about this. Things moved very fast with us, as we were together every day since we met, and now things have slowed down, and that's another thing that's been hard to handle, but is understandable. Anyway point is, I have been having a really difficult time starting and maintaining conversations not only with her, but with my good friends as well. I am a very social person normally, and thrive on having fun, goofy and intelligent conversations. But the past couple months, I feel as though I have lost my social skills.

    Any insight or advice would be appreciated
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    Aug 27, 2008, 08:53 AM
    You feel this way because your comfort level has been breached, that's all normal as you got hit with a bricks worth of news.

    Take a step back, enjoy the breath you take and then you will start feeling back to normal
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    Aug 27, 2008, 02:06 PM
    Your going through a lot and I'll bet it seems you have no control over any of it. Understandable, as the fears and not knowing what to do, or what the future holds, can drive any normal person nutsy bozo.

    Not to mention dealing with a pregnant female can do to the nerves. Yeah for 9 months a guy is completely helpless, and clueless. You'll be okay once things... naw can't lie to you, your whole life is changing BIGTIME, so better get it together.
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    Aug 27, 2008, 02:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by headache
    I feel as though I have lost my social skills.
    Not lost,just "hidden" for a while.

    Why do I say that? You've a baby on the way,and that's a lot of responsibility!!
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    Aug 27, 2008, 03:08 PM
    It's probably just because you have a lot on your mind. This is normal since this whole preganancy thing kind of hit you hard I guess. You'll come around.
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