Check out some similar questions!

MotleyMaiden · Jan 13, 2010, 02:14 PM

My ex and I have been broken up for 6 days and he started dating a new girl 4 days ago. The thing is, he always calls me just to talk and he wants to know who I like. Every time I mention a guy and start talking about him he seems to get mad and he demands that I restart what I was saying so he could hear it again. Last night when we were talking he wanted to pick me up and just start kissing me, but when he realized he said that he was silent for a long time and told me that he had his girlfriend on his mind. Then later on we started arguing a little and he said that he still thinks he loves me. I asked him how he could think that and he said that he doesn't know and that he doesn't want to hurt me. I also have this guy friend in which he goes up to and askes him everyday if he likes me and then he askes me if I like him. We keep telling him no. But why would he care? I still love him, and want to be with him even after all the things he done to me. Am I crazy for still wanting to be with him? I just need some answers please.

amicon · Jan 13, 2010, 02:25 PM

I suggest you stop talking to him altogether-go no contact and get on with your life.
He's with somebody else-ignore him.

UnluckyDucky · Jan 13, 2010, 02:42 PM

Had to spread rep amicon... but yes I'm in total agreement.

So two days after you broke up he started dating another girl? Interesting. Who's idea was this breakup anyway? Your ex sounds like he is confused and doesn't know exactly what he wants. Are you crazy for wanting to be with him? No. It's natural to feel that draw to someone you've been in a relationship even if they have wronged you, especially if its this fresh.

More important though, do you think you deserve this kind of treatment? How do you feel when he treats you like this? I'm sure you feel that you deserve better than to be strung along and given mixed signals. As amicon stated, he's with another girl now. Leave him be and ignore his calls.

Devorameira · Jan 13, 2010, 03:42 PM

You are so much better off without him. He is a confused mess!

Why would you want to waste your life and love on a fellow that was obviously already seeing "the other woman" when you broke up? He's not a nice person and he's just trying to hold on to a bit of you "in case" things don't work out with his new woman.

Open your eyes and keep your door shut - don't allow him to play any part in your life if you ever want to be happy.

-----------------------------------------------

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller

Life is not the way it's supposed to be. It's the way it is. The way you deal with it is what makes the difference. - Virginia Satir

TrueFaith · Jan 13, 2010, 05:01 PM

Wow really? Are you honestly going to put up with this childish game of, I don't want you!
But I don't want anyone else to have you.

Its time you tell this kid to grow some. And get off your back, and move on.

Like you are going to do.
Go no contact cut this kid from your life
Stop playing his game
Have some self respect
He is treating you like trash.
And using you.

Remember people only treat you, the way you let them treat you.

I hope you do the right thing

Regards