Hi it's me Jesus, yes i broke up with my girlfriend Daphne that i was seeing for about 1 year and 4 months, (i'm her first boyfriend) everything was perfect even though i would get bored sometimes . this is how it happened . well i received this new laptop i was all excited :). the next day (sunday)i went with my girlfriend to church, then we went to her grandma's house, they have cookout's every sunday, we got bored and decided to go some other place, she wanted an ice cream from mcdonald's , i was almost on empty on my gasoline tank , i only had 5 dollars on my pocket i decided to spend it on her, i placed my laptop on a desk, (i told her , watch out with my laptop) she was all like huh ? she almost dropped my laptop, if it wasn't for me that cot it :), i got angry and said to her You are always acting stupid it's always the same all the time, i gave her the 5 dollar's so she can buy the ice cream, i told her, buy it , i'll be outside finding a place to seat, she came up to me and said , take i don't want anything no more :(, she said give me the key's so i can grab my purse form your car , i said you are not leaving from here, well she left without her purse i thought she was in the restroom until 20 minutes that passed i went to the girl's restroom and called her , she didn't answer, i went to her grandma's house and she was outside with her little cousins, i called her and threw her purse at her, and said i don't want to see you no more, don't ever talk to me again :(.. that was on sunday . at night i'd called her to say sorry and she turned off her cell phone, she said the she was feeling really bad that she went to her best friends house to spend a whole week with her, Her Parent's don't like me anymore because they saw her crying like 3 times . on monday (5/19/08 yesterday) I'd made her a chocolate cake (her favorite ) and called her to see if we can talk about everything ,( we went to starbucks , her favorite place) we cried and all that .. she said that she loves me but her parent's don't want us to be together anymore :( , she said that i need to change, that i need to get my driver's license first, new licence plates sticker,because everytime we asked for her mom's car so we can go clubbing at juarez ( we live in el paso texas, Juarez mexico it's across the river, clubbing it's better over there),she would get angry and started asking why can i take my car instead of her's , and a new job, ( i got fired, i was feeling really bad that couldn't work ).. she gave me 3 week's to do all that , that in those 3 week's she's going to talk to her parent's about us, that we need to be back together,.. well we still talk, by phone , by msn, she said that she feels better talking to me, that she love's me no matter what . so my question is , are we going to be back together or is she trying to forgive me , or see me as a friend? :(

You are her first boyfriend.. she would love you of course. We, the people at AMHD, cannot make this decision for you. You must look deep down inside yourself and ask yourself 'do I love her the way she loves me?'
Choose wisley, because you don't want to hurt her again if you choose later in life that she really isn't the one you love.

Thank You :(

How old are you two?

I think that if you guys really are SORRY and CAN forgive eaxhother after all of that, that's a good sign. If you guys do get back together, maybe just start slow.. er. You are her first boyfriend, so of course she is going to "love" you. Your very important to her as a first love. Just be careful my friend... watch out. =]

She's 18 and I'm 20.. yes we behave like little kids :(

Yes you do.

Looks like you'll have to wait and see what she is up to.

Well I don't know what to do, she invited me today to school to registrer for next semester,
And she still calls me, and tell's me when she's going out with her friends, just like she used to it when we where going out .


She even told me that she feels OK, like nothing is wrong, but deep inside she misses me a lot..

Honestly?

You guys are having this fight over something that didn't happen (her dropping your laptop), unkind words ("Your acting stupid like always"), and acts of violence (Throwing her purse at her).

If you can't handle some as simple as that - don't bother.

Now I don't know what to do :( Her Parent's Went on vacations for a week, they left the older brother in charge,Daphnes mom gave her permission to invited me to her house, yesterday she invited me swimming with her sister, (she's a good friend o mine ) i took my friend Adolph so the four of us went swimming, we started drinking and having fun, me and daphne's sister got very drunk, we couldn't drive home ,because we got very drunk (adolph and me), so at 12 The Big bro decided to give us a ride because he didn't want us in the house anymore, well on the way home, i was joking allot with her sister , she started talking smack ( on a good way) .
and i told her playing around shut up or i'll kick your *** well the big bro stopped the car and said , before you kick her *** i'll kick your's ,you've been saying allot of stupid **** . shut up !!! well i got pissed and got of the car and wanted to fight him, Daphne and her sister stoped me, (they wore both crying ) well i went home walking with my friend adolph, Today her Older brother said sorry to Daphne because she was crying all night, he told her that he wasn't going to tell nothing about it to he's parent's,but that he doesn't want to see me at the house anymore , until the paren'ts come back. i talked to Daphne and she told me that she doesn't know what she wan't anymore . that she thought that i was going to change but didn't, she told me that all i give her is Problems, i told her that averything was perfect until yesterday, i told her that i was drunk that didn't knew what i was saying :( , i talked with her sister and she told me that she knew i was playing around when i was saying all that stupid stuff to her, but that Her brother and Daphne feel sad the way i acted yesterday.

You guys been going out for way to long and obviously care too much about each other to let it go because of a laptop... but I think you guys will get back together. If she tells you she will love you no matter what then its 99 percent chance she will. I think you guys should work out your problems... and of course her parents will feel that way. I think any parent would... I've been through similar things and I know how my mom can be. Don't give up and let her know you love her and I'm sure things will be ohk... it seems like your doing a really good job of showing her you care so keep it up! And about the boring thing defenitely talk that over. Id like to know how things turn out good luck

It's not because of the laptop :( it's the way I acted that day .