I meet this girl on myspace and we talk and then I ask her out she deny me 11 times but I kept on asking and on christmas day she said yes. We meet up at the mall but when we 1st meet their was no love it was like we are just boyfriend and girlfriend. She was a virgin and I was a popular athlete who plays girls but their was something about this girl. So we strted going out and it got strong as the months pass she feel in love with me she was also a jelous girl who never likes when other girls talk about me or talk to me on myspace or Facebook.I made her wear my chain and my football state rings. I never fourced her to do anything with me I waited on her we did it once but it wasn't long because her parents was home and she was in pain so I stop. I wasn't into it for lust with her same for her we spent most times talking and at a park by her house where I picked out a spot their and called it our mountain, I told her stories their and we laugh and stupid things. She put in everything in this relationship she pick our our son, our movie and even a quote for us "if you jump i jump" she was deeply in love with me but I wasn't I was out their messing with other girls and she found out that I was cheating on her and she for gave me and I started to settle down with her a little. It was the summer going into my sr year and I told her things going to get bussy for me so I think we should be friends she said no I'm here for you we'll work it out and find time for each other so we meet up that day she was crying and stuff so she's like if your done then take your chain off my neck but I couldn't I don't know why but I just couldn't so I said OK well make this work but I was bussy and I sports took up my time with scholarships and other stuff so she ask me what are we going to do when you go off to college because she doesn't want to break up and I'm like OK then we won't.
It was prom time and I was takeing another girl she was pissed about it but I told her I promise that girl from a long time but she was pissed but I told her to just understand then she said OK but she was still mad about it but to me I didn't care. Because I was doing my sports and other girls and partying it up.
I didn't talk to her for 3 months but during thoses time she would still text me and call and say goodnight and tell me she loves me and she knows I'm tired but I didn't reply I just stayed to myself. But then I started to talk to her and she came to my games and she was always supporting me so I was like this girl really loves me for just me so I was their trying to make time for her. In August I got a message from her best friend saying that my girlfriend been cheeting on me from the past 5 months at 1st I was like ohh OK but then why I didn't believe is because her best friend is known for rumors and drama so I didn't believe but I kept on asking how you know and she told me little and little so I confromted my girlfriend and she said no he's just a friend I'm like OK. So then I kept on presuring her and she kept on saying he's just a friend so her bestfrined said ask her mother she knows so I ask her mother and she said no they are just friends I was like OK. So my friends ask her other friend about her and the kid and her frind say yes they do go out so that night I call up my girlfriend and tell her the info I got and she started to cry and then she said its not like that its just a title he was just someone to talk to when you wasn't their for those 3 months and he kept on asking me out and I said no but I said yes because I though he was going to leave and all her other friends are backstabbers and he was the only person she could talk to so I was like OK so now I'm here stop talking to him she's like that's going to be messed up and blah blah so I said OK. I saw her on her birthday and gave her her gift and we did stuff I said to her if your doing stuff with me and him I don't want to catch anything she said no and was like you know me and know how I am that it takes a while to do that and he's not her type and he's just a friend I said OK and I say let me get my ring and chain she said no we aren't over. Then the second time I saw her it was anniversary and I gave her her gift and we went to the park and we talk and we went back to her house and I said to her listen ima go just let me get my chain and ring she said no we are not over its just a phase and it's a tough chapter in our life and no because we are going to get married and all this whole bunch of stuff then she say if you want it take it off my neck I said OK and went to take it off and she said no we are not over all this going to get better and make us stronger then she write a letter making both of us agreeing that we are going to get married, that same day her mom was like you guys are too into each other and you guys should try to see other people and we ignore her and she's like I'm going to be with college girls and then don't want her and she kept telling her daughter that. So I the next day we talk then argued and she got mad and she just hang up then the next day she call I ignore her and I called back later down and she said I just call to tell you that I love you and I was like OK. Then I said if you love me break up wit this kid she said she can't so I was like then ima go she's like your just going to just go walk outa my life and just leave and I waited for you when you was bussy and stuff and I was like its better if I just go so she said I will allways love you and care about you and I still want to do things with you and you're the only guy I want to do things with and he's going to realize that we are just friends and nothing more that that because she can't just cut him off like that because he was their and she doesn't want to hurt anyone elce because she said the day when I get hurt shell be hurt to so I said OK and I was gone. Then a week of silence I didn't talk to her and she text me the eve of our anaversary and I didn't reply until 3 weeks later then she didn't reply so I was like ohh well. Then laer down I text her saying lets just cut the inature games of not answering when we text each other then I got no reply. So that same night I call her mom and her mom was like hey and we talk the mom ask if I have a new girlfriend I said no and she said why you're a goodlooking guy and popular with the girls and I said I don't know then I ask how's your daughter she said she fround a job and she's doing good in school and she and the kid areent friend but they started to go out so I was like ohh OK and I was like where is she now she say she's showering and she's going to tell her to call me or I should call her in 15 minutes so I waited no call then I call no answer so I was like OK. Then she put on her aim away message that I don't want you to slip away I'm sorry. So the question I want to ask why dose she hold on to my ring and chain ?and what does that message mean? Cause I'm giving her her space break what evea it is I just want to know why she holds on to my things and I got her things too

Your post is almost unreadable.

You seem to both be playing games. If this new guy is her boyfriend then you're just being strung along, box her stuff and take it back to her or her mum.

If you gave her the ring (non engagement ring) then its hers, you can ask for it back but she seems to be holding onto them so she doesn't have to admit it is over.

And then move on, stick to no contact.

Yeah I stop contact but the funny thing is I don't rember her address. The thing is I'm doing me now it hurts I'm not going to lie but at the same time I want her back. Because I know she loves me because if she didn't she would have send my things back . I mean she can't just completley 4 get about me ? I'm her 1st ?