Here's the deal... been dating my girlfriend SERIOUSLY for almost 2 yrs... left my ex-wife to hopefully be with her the rest of my life... we had a bad scene with her father... he and I had words and it was ugly... this happened a few months back... my relationship with my girlfriend was obviously strained... in more frequent arguments following the scene with her father, I continued to harp on that situation... I really allowed it to adversely affect me... and I took it out on my girlfriend... NOT COOL... but I have begun the apology process with her parents finally... and with my girlfriend... she asked for time and space 2 months ago... we've spoke only sparingly during this time... minimal contact verbal or electronic.. NONE in person... she still doesn't know how much time she needs... I am dying to get back with her... will do ANYTHING to make it possible... the question is - how much longer is it fair to make me wait and just dangle in the wind? I have NO CLUE the next time I hear from her... I never know... not until I break down in desperation and email or something... she tells me how much she loves me... neither of us doubt our love for the other... but I am beginning to feel resentment over the length of time this is dragging on... how much longer do I wait? This is beyond unhealthy for me... lost almost 20 lbs... cannot sleep at all... what should I do?