My girlfriend wanted a break!
Asked Feb 8, 2012, 10:08 AM
Ok so here's the story me and my girlfriend have been together for about 9 months and it's the best relationship of my life we're bestfriends do everything together exc. Perfect relationship I never had a complaint. Perfect girl for me the whole nine yards. Recently (last month or 2) she's been depressed and suicidal. A week ago she said she needed time alone, wants to be independent, and her main issue is she wants to be able to be happy without me. I just think she's very confused and slightly bored. I haven't spoken a word to her in almost a week because I told her to go ahead let's take a break but no contact. My question is should I contact her and see how she's doing and talk about the situation, or should I not contact her at all and wait to come back?! Any and all advice is greatly appreciated the reason I encouraged the break even though the thought of it ruined my life is bbecause I've been reading on this site and everyone keeps saying trying to desperately hole on pushes her away!