Right now I am so depressed I feel like I don't have anyone. My girlfriend and I have been with each other for 3 years. We have a beautiful daughter that I love very much. She recently decided that she doesn't Love me anymore. Our relationship wasn't the best, but we still had love for each other. I said some pretty nasty things to her, but I never meant it it was out of anger. She also said some really nasty things to me to. It was a love hate relationship. Finally last week I wrote her a letter telling her of my frustration and the next day she said she didn't love me and that she needed time apart. Within the last week an a half I have she gave me mixed feelings. On Friday she finally told me "Get it through your head I don't Love you anymore!" That was really hurtful. Is there anyway I could get her back or make her fall in love with me all over again? Thanks Droopygg82

Lol I'm going threw the same thing. I have a son who is 2. Literally the same thing. I wouldn't doubt it if she is talking to at I'm doing and haveanother guy.. Only advice I can give is do what I'm doing and do no contact. Let her miss you. Don't be available to her.. If she needs you to watch your daughter just because SHE needs some one say no.. Make sure you see your daughter and do things together. I just went for a hour run with my son along the river. DO things that is going to make you and your daughter close. No contact my friend. I really am here to support you as people on this forum have been there to support me. There is no telling if she will come back. Andyour ONLY option if you want her back is to ignore her. No contact.. Give yourself time to heal and let her have a break with no contact from you. If possible only contact her threw email for your daughter. And keep it straight to the point your daughter. If she loves you she will miss you. And if she doesn't then it is her loss. Think of the life she is going to have raising a daughter all by her self. I know you will be there but she will come across a lot of problems. She might date some one but don't let it bother you. Would you date a girl who already has a kid?/ You might sleep with her but most likely you woulndt commit to a women who already has a kid. No contact bud and make your self happy. Don't give her the time of day. No calling her up saying I love you, no caling her saying I want to make this work. Just act like your OK with it and move on. I don't know if she will be back but your only choice is no contact so she can realize mabe she does love you.. I know it will be tuff TRUST ME lol bt you can do it. My problem is I know when I finally do move on that is when she will be back to throw my life in shambles. But this time I am stronger and I won't allow nothing of the sort. And to be hoenst I probably won't take her back.. For me she needs to prove her self to me and I don't think my girl is willing, she might want me back eventually but don't believe she is wiling to prove it or fight for it... No contact. Good luck and keep us posted. Anything you want to say to her say it on here and DO NOT CONTACT HER

Well that brings me to another question? It is kind of hard for me to see my daughter without calling her. My ex's dad watches her and I don't really like him and he doesn't really like me. I want to be with my daughter a lot. I can go without contacting her, but I don't know what to do to see my daughter and now my daughter is slowly drifting apart from me. She crys when she see's me and its hard for me. I hope my ex isn't seeing another guy I would flip out. I don't know I am just so confused right now

I am in the same place but my ex was seeing some one. Im not sure if they are still a item but my point is only contact her threw email. Or if you must call her but keep it JUst your daughter and that's it. If she is with another guy there is nothing you can do about it. Move on as I'm trying too. Just accept that it is over <---- I have a problem with this one too but accept it is over and move on. When she sees you enjoying life without her and she is not having it so easy it will make her think. Just have fun go to the gym. I have always went to the gym but now my works out are fuled with anger and that is how+ I +vent. Stay strong. You have to be happy for you before you can be happy with some one. Just ignore her and make her realize what she is missing. Might take time and might not happen but you never no what tomorrow brings.

Crushed is correct, the thing for now is you healing, and being able to make good clear decisions, from here on in, and handle your emotions in a healthy mature way. Hard as it is to do, and we all know what you face, it's the best route to go.

As much as I think about her. I try to get rid of false hope. See what is bad in my situation I know she will be back.. And this time I will be the person who decides. And I just want to be happy./. Serioulsy bro with out even knowing your whole situation. You would be happier with out her. I still say to myself I no ill be happy with out her but I want her. Buti have this sense of feeling that I'm finally free. Be free and just do you. She isn't worth your time your love. Only thing I have is the fact that I didn't leave it that way she did and I don't have to live with that. Dude screw her. Have fun in life. Don't let some women control your emoitions.. YOu need to be able to control your own emoitions before you allow others to be in your life.