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    Apr 14, 2011, 07:11 PM
    My girlfriend just broke up with me it's been the 4 time should I try to get her back
    My girlfriend just broke with me for the fourth time we have been going out since high school the past three break ups we always got back because I always fought to get her I'n my life again but now this fourth time I don't know if I should try again she said that she needs to know what to do I'n her life and that she wants to date other people and have convos with others. She said that there was no same feeling anymore and that I need to move on on my own truly I gave her everything at anytime she needed something and she pops with this what should I do try to get her back again fight for her go to her apt and beg her back ?
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    Apr 14, 2011, 08:50 PM
    Never do this.. If u did it in the past then it was your mistake.. She is keep on breaking up with you and you are keep on begging to her.. Just ask yourself.. Is this love and you want to do this for your whole life,then go ahead.. But if u want the real love who will be loving you more than anyone else then wait for the girl.Move on.In lyf we should not give second chance to the broken relationship.. U can try to convince her.. But don't go and beg her.. If she is not coming to you then u also move on.. U will get nice gals who will love u more than anyone else... She don't know the meaning of love and commitment.. She just want her happiness and I should say that she is selfish and she is not meant for love.. Move on
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    Apr 14, 2011, 09:07 PM
    You know what your not the first that says she is selfish you are so right .
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    Apr 14, 2011, 11:23 PM
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    Move on man.. Don't give yourself pain.. It will hurt in starting but if you will leave her then only you will get real love.. Get new friends.. Enjoy your life.. Dance,sing.. Do this for one month and you will be out of this.. Take care.. All the best.
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    Apr 15, 2011, 12:25 AM

    This relationship has run it's course and the sooner you realise that and start moving on,the better.

    Let her go explore her own life while you go live yours.
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    Apr 15, 2011, 10:34 AM

    What would you tell a guy who keeps getting dumped and was ready to go back to get dumped again??

    That's right, you are a glutton for punishment, and should have disappeared from her life a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time ago. Like after the first time she dumped you!!

    There is a reason why you are out after 3 strikes you know.
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