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bizygurl · Jan 1, 2006, 07:29 AM

I read on a previous post that You can actually get one done before the child is born. Im not sure how, since I have two of my own and never heard of that before. But it may be harder to do it that way because the mother will have to be willing to do that. Well Im sure whatever the outcome things will straighten(spelling) themselves out in the end. Like Talalin (spelling again) said if it is yours, then send her the check. But on a more lighter note, just do what you need to do to be a father to this child and don't worry so much about her. Remember your not alone so many people find themselves in this situation it isn't even funny. My youngest brother is going through almost the same situation that your in now, and we are very close, so I can relate a little to how your feeling. Good luck with everything

bassistguy · Jan 1, 2006, 10:52 AM

If the child is mine, I am going to be the best father I can be. It's a choice I made to "create" this child (if it is mine), and I will be resposible for my actions. Thanks again for the support and advice. This site totally rocks!:)

bizygurl · Jan 1, 2006, 01:08 PM

Your completely welcome:D

nwsflash · Jan 1, 2006, 02:02 PM

Originally Posted by Wildcat21

Exactly. Crankiebabie is right here. Ughhhhhh.

Again your a pawn in a broken relationship btween her and her ex. She's USING you against him....hanging with you when your lonely.

I bet she loves this other guy and he is a REAL jerk and dumps here and treats her like crap.....AND SHE LOVES IT!!!! Loves it!!!!!

Could not agree more

"If the child is mine, I am going to be the best father I can be. It's a choice I made to "create" this child (if it is mine), and I will be resposible for my actions"

These are the worlds of a true gent, you posted above! Get the test done ASAP as soon as the child is born, and always stick by the words you posted above these words will always guide you to been a good parent.

momincali · Jan 1, 2006, 07:19 PM

Originally Posted by bassistguy

If the child is mine, I am going to be the best father I can be. It's a choice I made to "create" this child (if it is mine), and I will be resposible for my actions. Thanks again for the support and advice. This site totally rocks!:)

Sorry she has put you through so much garbage. She definitely is not trustworthy but that's almost not the point here. The point is, that regardless, you are going to be there for the baby (assuming the baby is yours of course) and you are planning on being a good dad. I salute you for that my friend. Too many guys would use the excuse that the mom is a witch and they can't stand being around her so they abandon the kid altogether. Don't let her punk you. If this child is yours and you have to fight for visitation, then do so with everything you have. ALWAYS be polite in front of your kid, even as a baby. Don't need to be nice or cater to her, just polite.

Please keep us posted and God bless you.

amartin316 · Sep 30, 2010, 04:40 AM

Be honest with her and trust your gut you will be surprised if you trust your gut mine hasn't been wrong Try and talk to her about it calmly don't by into the whole Ilove you and no one else bull crap almost all women lie. They say they did it so they don't hurt