My girlfriend dumped me 2 years back and now she calls me how should I behave?
Asked May 23, 2012, 05:07 AM
My girlfriend dumped me for a guy 2 years back and just three days back I'm getting a call early morning from unknown number and its her finally calling me. We were in no contact for 2 years because she blocked me on FB and even my number. So was helpless to bring her back. Its already late she has fallen for another guy, she wants his new boyfriend back in her life because her new boyfriend has dumped her now.
So she wants me to forgive her for leaving all of a sudden because she believes its my forgiveness that will cut the curse. Her new boyfriend is doing the same thing to my ex what my ex used to do to me like blocking and not picking up the calls. She's very sad now and she began talking to me with lots of crying. She told me to not wish that she would return back to me and even I do not know that given a chance do I want to get back with her after she left me? I'm not a punisher but more of a forgiver and I forgives her sometimes ago in my mind. She even called me a friend while she was crying and told me she has no friend around her. But I told her "I'm not your friend!" But in reality I do want to become her friend to get her out of this suffering and pain she's getting.
I don't know what future we hold for each other. So people can you tell me how should I behave in this situation. Should I call her to check how she's feeling? Should I wish her on her birthday? By the way her birthday comes in just 2 days. Need help on this.
Last edited by talaniman; May 23, 2012 at 01:34 PM.