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    dasycarlsgirl Posts: 23, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 4, 2011, 02:50 PM
    My girlfriend is crying over a song ?
    My girlfriend and I were listening to this song by Willie Nelson and Ray Charles its calles Seven Spainsh Angels I love it but itt makes her cry really hard how should I comfort her ?
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    Feb 4, 2011, 03:09 PM

    Tell her it's a song. How old is she?

    Or you can ask her why she's crying so hard that she's worrying you.

    Or you could stop playing it.

    I notice she is also crying because you are abusive to her - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post2696434.

    Are the crying issues related?

    I notice she also cries because of the weather forecast - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...nd-550233.html.

    There are also issues with you wanting to have sex and she does not. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ml#post2695141

    The cousin is crying over some other issue - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ng-550996.html

    Maybe you both should talk to someone about these issues?
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    Feb 4, 2011, 03:10 PM
    This girlfriend cries over tornadoes and actors and songs and what else. Maybe she sprung a leak.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 03:10 PM

    Don't.

    Just let her feel the song and the emotions it brings.

    Your not making her cry it's the emotions the song brings to the surface for her.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 03:14 PM
    Comment on JudyKayTee's post
    She's 18 . She loves country music but she doesn't like sad songs.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 03:15 PM

    Did you read my entire post?
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    Feb 4, 2011, 03:34 PM
    Comment on joypulv's post
    She can't help it ! Her parents and her ex boyfriend were mean to her. That's why she cries all the time.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 04:12 PM

    It sounds like you were also mean to her. I am not surprised that you cannot comfort her.

    I think you BOTH need to talk to someone. She has been verbally abused in the past by (apparently) several people. There are other issues here.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 04:16 PM

    How come your profile says you're 18 with a boyfriend who is 17 and yet every question you've asked here is about your girlfriend?
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    Feb 4, 2011, 04:43 PM
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    She's got problems and I'm trying to help her.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 04:46 PM
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    It was just her parents and her ex-boyfrend were mean to her and she thinks about them a lot and I was tired of hearing about her gay ex-boyfriend that's why I yelled at her and I do comfort her when she needs it. I do love her.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 05:38 PM
    I still find each of these separate posts somewhat odd and out of whack.
    It makes no sense to ask total strangers about someone crying over a certain song, person, weather pattern, or other things, one at a time, as though she cries and you run to your computer.
    Asking a more encompassing question about dealing with someone who is on the edge of tears a lot would make sense. When people are suffering, they want comfort, plain and simple. Someone who listens and who is just THERE. You aren't here in this planet to solve their problems.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 06:24 PM
    Your profile states that you are the girl. Why are you lying to us and making up stories?
    You need to either grow up or get help because it's not funny or amusing at all. It's a waste of our time.
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    Feb 4, 2011, 06:45 PM
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    My boyfriend is on the enternet every day he's just trying to help me he told me to do my profile on here that's all . I just get on to listen to music and do my email. We're being seriouse were not trying to be funny. How Rude !
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    Feb 4, 2011, 08:24 PM

    Our answers are directly dependent on knowing the FACTS! How can any of our advice be accurate when we don't know who we're talking to...
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    Feb 4, 2011, 09:09 PM

    Enough is enough, and all these threads all over the place about the same thing is helping no one. Whomever gets this, please get some help to get over the past and deal with your issues.
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    Feb 5, 2011, 08:19 AM

    Lie once and no one here will EVER believe you.
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