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    Aug 15, 2012, 03:28 PM
    My girlfriend cheating
    My girlfriend always said she would love me till the end of time and now she's cheating on me!
    She doesn't know that I know OK so here's the story:
    She went in the shower and she got a text I read it and it said "hey babe wanna have sex tonight" and I'm like
    😱 help what do I do?
    I need help should I brake up with her? Or should I punish her?
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    Aug 15, 2012, 04:36 PM
    First off, grow a pair and move on... as long as you feel a need to "punish" someone.. you lack the maturity to be in a relationship.

    I don't see a person there that even deserves to have your attention wasted on.
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    Aug 16, 2012, 05:34 AM
    Ok I will thank you
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    Aug 16, 2012, 05:36 AM
    When you find the right person, you will not only never have to deal with this... you won't even have to think about it.
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    Aug 16, 2012, 05:43 AM
    Punish her, lord give me a break, I think public whippings of women and branding them with a Scarlet Letter was outlawed a few years ago.

    Next how do you know that text was actually for her, and if so not a joke from a girlfriend.

    Ok, it sounds possible, but does she go and have time to be dating other men ?

    I get about 4 to 5 strange texts, a year, this year, naked man photo, someone telling me what they wanted to do with me, ( I had to read it three or four times and go to confesson twice for that one) But if you got a text that was not for you, and she read it, would you want a chance to explain ?

    You ask her what it is about,
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    Aug 16, 2012, 05:48 AM
    There are a lot of things you have to consider... You read the message and did she replied?? In a relationship you need an open communication.. if you really love this girl and she loves you back just the same honesty is the best key... If she is really having an affair then she will be honest enough to tell you the truth... But just reading the message that way it might just be someone who wants to destroy your relationship. Its not that I'm taking her side but its better to discuss this with her seriously rather than taking a move that you might regret in the end... If and only if you found out that she is cheating on you then let go... You will find someone better and the best revenge is to be happy without that person... Make sure that you are really happy without her not just showing off :D goodluck
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    Aug 16, 2012, 06:10 AM
    I Really do love her but I can't
    Take it because she did addmit
    She was cheating on me and
    Said she was sorry and I Really
    Don't want to brake up
    With her but I can't
    Trust her
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    Aug 16, 2012, 06:33 AM
    In that case it would be better to let her go. If you continue with this relationship there will be a big chance that you will end up hurting yourself deeper and hurting her as well. As I've told you earlier best thing for you to do is to be happy without her sooner or later she will be the one to realize her loss... It's good to hear that there are still guys like you who loves unconditionally but still you have to love yourself and with that it means that you have to be happy in some other ways:D
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    Aug 16, 2012, 06:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Just a dude View Post
    Or should I punish her?
    Seriously?! Who do you think you are? Her father?

    Never ever punish someone other than your child!
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    Aug 16, 2012, 07:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Just a dude View Post
    My girlfriend always said she would love me till the end of time and now she's cheating on me!
    She doesn't know that I know ok so here's the story:
    She went in the shower and she got a text I read it and it said "hey babe wanna have sex tonight" and I'm like
    �� help what do I do?
    I need help should I brake up with her? Or should I punish her?

    Let's see - you spied on her text messages. That's how insecure you are.

    Now you want to know if you should punish her. That's how immature you are.

    Yes, do her a favor and break up with her.
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    Aug 16, 2012, 10:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Let's see - you spied on her text messages. That's how insecure you are.

    Now you want to know if you should punish her. That's how immature you are.

    Yes, do her a favor and break up with her.
    Totally !
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    Aug 16, 2012, 10:27 AM
    I went to our local park and saw this girl and my lil' bro told me to go for it so I did and we Really clicked oh and he is 13 months younger than me do I get tough fights lul
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    Aug 16, 2012, 10:32 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Just a dude View Post
    I went to our local park and saw this girl and my lil' bro told me to go for it so I did and we Realy clicked oh and he is 13 months younger than me do I get tough fights lul
    You your brother get into fights? How is that related to your girldriend?
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