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loon3y · Mar 25, 2009, 11:49 PM

Ok well to start my relationship wasn't long.. We have been on and off for 6 months but have very strong feelings.

Well we have been on and off everything was going great but we ended up breaking up over people saying stuff about me and saying I was cheating and lying to her.

But every time she took me back after explaining the situation and showing her it wasn't true..
Also we were in constant texting and calling and we would see each other a lot when we had the chance.

All of a sudden after 6 months and getting back together for the 3rd time I was mad about something that happen and I wasn't really talking to her but she kept trying to talk to me like a normal conversation then all of a sudden she said she would call me back..

Then she had text me saying that it wasn't working out because we never talked like a couple and that we aren't the same in anyway, but I asked if I made her happy and she said yes but it wasn't working out...

So really what can I do and is this something that can be fixed or is she done with me..

mudweiser · Mar 26, 2009, 12:21 AM

It's only been about 6 months and it's been on and off on and off. You don't have to be a Miss Chloe to see that this relationship doesn't have a bright future ahead.

Best bet is to cut your losses.

MRS.S

loon3y · Mar 26, 2009, 01:17 PM

Originally Posted by mudweiser

It's only been about 6 months and it's been on and off on and off. You don't have to be a Miss Chloe to see that this relationship doesn't have a bright future ahead.

Best bet is to cut your losses.

MRS.S

That would be true to me but I diddnt really want to get into full detail

Forgot to say that her family is really strict about going out with her brothers friends so really we can't tell them also where we are at a lot of people have a lot of stuff to say about me so they tell lies and make her think I'm lying because I am not with her at school because I'm in a complete different school

neverme · Mar 26, 2009, 01:34 PM

I really think that your relationship is over.

It doesn't seem like it's been a bed of roses already and she says you have nothing in common.

It's time to let this go.

liz28 · Mar 26, 2009, 01:50 PM

The relationship failed because it lack communication. Instead of the two of you talking to work out your differences the two of you would pulled away.

In the future don't do this. Talk about what is bothering you because nobody is a mind reader. You have to express your feelings and concerns and work together as a team. We you are able to work together as a team you can overcome anything together regardless what people outside the relationship are saying.

This is why the relationship couldn't survive and didn't work.

talaniman · Mar 27, 2009, 06:44 PM

You said yourself this is on/off, and has been for a while, so now its off. If you want to break the cycle, leave it off for a while longer, and do something else with your time.