We have been together for 2 yrs and things were fantastic, but I have recently discovered that she has been flirting with my brother via email. She has told me that she loves me but is not attracted to me anymore. But she doesn't know why. I love her dearly and have given her space but she is still cold to me, but maintains she does love me. She was abused as a child by her father and previous ex boyfriends, and I have shown her nothing but love affection and support when she needs it but she doesn't think counseling will help. The last thing I want to do is push her away by telling her I love her all the time and pushing for an answer. But what else can I do? I love her so much but its been months of nothing no hugs kisses. I am afraid of losing her can anyone please help