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    helloboys Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 29, 2012, 09:43 PM
    A girl accepted a boy, but loving another boy.

    I loved a girl from my11th standard. And she accepted my love when I am doing my college and in my second year. Due to some problem, she did not speak with me for 1.5 year. At that time she thought I am not any more, and accepted another boy.

    Now she realised my love, and came back. And saying she is loving me only. I accepted her because I love her lot.

    Now the problem is that boy is blackmailing her, he can't live without her. If she leave he will die.

    Could any one give a solution. Its urgent??
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    Alty Posts: 28,317, Reputation: 5972
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    Apr 29, 2012, 09:46 PM
    If I'm reading this right she's telling you that she's with this other guy because he's threatened to kill himself if she leaves him?

    This may sound harsh, but I'd tell her to either leave him, because threatening suicide just to keep someone in your life is not the kind of person anyone should be with, or stay with him and let you move on to someone that can give you their love completely.

    Who needs the drama?
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    indya Posts: 357, Reputation: 58
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    Apr 29, 2012, 09:59 PM
    Well... I agree with Alty...

    Ask her to leave that blackmailer, if needed file a police report.


    There are chances, she's lying to be with both of you!

    Have you seen/heard him threaten her like that?

    In anycase, either the girl leaves that guy, or you leave her. Being in current situation isn't healthy for you.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855

    Apr 30, 2012, 08:10 AM
    I do not know of which culture, or country you reside in, but black mail is a very lame excuse to stay with some one, wouldn't you agree? If she does then she simply is not the one for you. Your solution is tell her to chose, and let her do it.

    Love or not, getting her may not be the prize you think it is, plus how the hell do you not have contact with one you profess to love. I see this as a dilemma you created by not overcoming that problem that separated you for a year and a half.

    Now it's a mess, and you have no choice but to let her solve it. If it were my love that allowed herself to be black mailed by threats... I would be GONE. But then again, I would have never let a problem come between us for a year and a half either.

    Sorry guy, this is unacceptable behavior by you both, but maybe she has doubts about YOU! Welll she should, given your past performance.

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