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    kjl56 Posts: 13, Reputation: 2
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    Jan 6, 2006, 07:49 AM
    To be a girl
    I am a boy, 28 years old, I like to live like Girls, apparently.
    May you guide me step by step to convert into a girl?
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692

    Jan 6, 2006, 08:21 AM
    Actually if you want someone to "tell you" or "guide you" then you don't know what you want to do, or how you wish to live and are trying to find someone to tell you what you are suppose to do.

    How about doing what you want to ? While I do not agree with the life style choices you may be making, I am always firm you should make the choices yourself and not try to mold your life after what others say you should or should not do.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,327, Reputation: 10855

    Jan 6, 2006, 10:37 AM
    To Be A Girl?
    A 28 year old boy?Okay lets start over Can't you just be yoursef?aAfter 28 years you should know who you are and what you are about and its nobodies business but yours.Having said that there are a lot of people with nothing else to do but point out the differences in people.Now if you want a step by step road map to being a girl see a therapist and a doctor as they can answer you better than just us unqualified human beings!:cool: :rolleyes:
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    orange Posts: 1,364, Reputation: 197
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    Jan 6, 2006, 12:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kjl56
    I am a boy, 28 years old, I like to live like Girls, apparently.
    May you guide me step by step to convert into a girl?
    I have a friend who's a crossdresser, and has been crossdressing for years. (meaning he dresses up as a woman whenever he feels like it) However, he doesn't live as a woman, and I think that's what you're talking about doing... which is more of a transgender issue than crossdressing (also calling being a "tranny"). Have you ever tried looking up crossdressing or female transgender on the internet? There are lots of great resources, including tips. Here's a couple of sites my friend recommends to get you started:

    Diane's Crossdressing Tips

    The Transgender Guide - includes a message board sort of like this one and lots of links to other resources.

    I don't know where you are living, but there are also Crossdressers and Transgender support groups, all over the world. Crossdressers Anonymous is an example. The Transgender Guide website has a list of all the support groups in the United States and Canada, but if you're in another country, you could do a Google search for "transgender support uk", or whatever other country you live in, and something useful should come up.

    Now a word of caution to you: no matter where you live, being a crossdresser or transgendered can be very dangerous. There are people out there who would like nothing better than to beat you and/or kill you. Be very careful who you hang out with while you are dressing as a woman. And don't try to "pass" as a woman around men who might be very offended and can really hurt you.

    Good luck, and come back and let us know how you're doing!
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    nymphetamine Posts: 900, Reputation: 109
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    Jan 6, 2006, 06:53 PM
    Susan. Nice name by the way. Im just curious. Are you sure you are 28? You are referring to yourself as a boy. I hear grown women all the time call themselves girls but I have never heard a 28 year old man call himself a boy. Hey, maybe you should be a girl. Lol. Im just asking because you sound very young by your post. I mean much much younger than 28. Of course I don't always act my age so. Just curious.

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