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    Oct 1, 2008, 12:09 PM
    My first month
    We've been broken for about a month and the NC lasted for like two weeks and then she sent me a random txt telling me about how she found the letters I left her when I last saw her. She said that it made her heart ache with each one that she read. So being the stupid guy that I was I tried to talk to her and figure out what she meant. And of course everyone has been through this she totally ignored it and said that she overreacted. And next thing you know she's talking to this new guy and now they are dating already and may I add she went to go see this guy I when I went to go see what was wrong with her and why she broke up with me and she gave the generic answers like the feeling was not there anymore etc.. And that all happen within my first month. So pretty much I'm even further back then I was when I started the NC cause I learned of their relationship and that she's a because she even told me when I went to go see her that maybe in the future when were both available we could pick up where we left off. So I told her why she would tell me that and her reply was "Okay I wont tell you things like that". So to sum it up I am worst off then I originally was, but now after reading a lot of these threads, I feel really stupid for trying so hard for someone that treated me horrible at the end. So its pretty much only day two for me.
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    Oct 1, 2008, 12:17 PM

    Yep, when you break NC it leaves you worse than before. But now you're angry, which means you will get completely serious about NC which is a good thing. You know see clearly how she is and you don't need that drama and confusion in your life.
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    Oct 1, 2008, 02:11 PM

    Ever since my ex told me she had a crush on some guy I went serious nc Been ten days I'd rather not know if thy got together etc.

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