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christiney88 · May 5, 2012, 05:40 PM

Everything seemed like a big romantic whirlwind at the start. We both fell head over heels in love with each other. He'd never been in love before and his longest relationship was 4 months, so I thought because I was the 1st girl he'd loved, I would be different! But then he became up and down and I found out he suffers from depression - he tried to commit suicide 3x in the past. It felt like I was losing his attention. He decided to end saying "it doesn't feel right" I know it was hard, but only because he doesn't know how to be in a relationship. He can't handle it. He said he'd never love like that again n even though he ended "u were my everything". It's just so hard for my heart to move on though my logic has. I have a plan to get him back, but know he doesn't deserve it...

Bernty · May 6, 2012, 02:38 AM

That's a tough one how long were you together for? Since he's depressed I wouldn't push him into anything he dissent want to do, I'd just tell him that your there for him if he needs you and tell him he doesn't have to be afraid around you and then he might realize how good you are for him. But on the other hand I've had some depression too and from my perspective he's probually just breaking up with you because he doesn't want to get more attached to you and then get hurt even more.

talaniman · May 6, 2012, 09:11 AM

I think if you give yourself a lot more time you will see that eventually you will move on. Yeah its hard when its still fresh, but time heal all wounds... and hearts! Forget the plans to get him back!

Accept that he is gone.

Stephaniecg · May 7, 2012, 12:13 PM

Try talking to him to get help, tell him you love him and that you're there to help him, that you have decided to give him another chance.

mmresd · May 7, 2012, 05:41 PM

You got to give yourself time to heal, everyone has a hard time right after the break up. Everything will be OK, just be thankful you weren't together longer, or this would be harder.