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    PopcornSunshineKisses Posts: 60, Reputation: 4
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:33 PM
    Finally BreakingUp But how do I do it?
    Its been 2 days now and I've decited to Break up with my Boyfriend..
    We have been dating 2 months now..
    But I haven't seen him since last Monday
    I'm too scared to hurt him How should I break up with him Because I never get a chance to see him?.

    Any ideas and would Talking over msn Be OK? Because that's seems too be our Relationship For the last While
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:38 PM
    I would try to see him in person, or at least call him. Just be really honest with him. Tell him that you will always cherish the time you spent together. Be upfront about the reasons for the breakup. He may be hurt, but he will be glad that you were honest and kind.
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:43 PM
    Thanks I've been Trying to meet with him But Hes eather too busy or I am I just want it done with you know? I know that sounds Bad but yeah :S
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    Jan 25, 2008, 04:49 PM
    I agree with Peggy , just be honest with him. But do it in person.
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    Jan 25, 2008, 10:48 PM
    Thank you for the Imput I just thought My way would have been Better since We Rarly see each other I doubted he would Care too much
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    Jan 26, 2008, 12:23 AM
    Hmmm...

    I think you should definitely tell him you need to speak with him about something important.. and you both should make some time AT LEAST devote 1 day and talk and tell him the truth on why you want to end things..

    If not.. and you happen to not see him for awhile... and you REALLY want to break it off you should tell him over the phone... (not a good way to break up with someone) but in your case your not seeing him often so its all right.

    Hope my little advice helps.. good luck .
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    Jan 26, 2008, 01:22 AM
    Thanks :) Sounds better then Just putting it off... I haven't seen him in 2 weeks and I have finals this week And then He can only hangout apparently on weekends After next week So that's going to be Almost a month Of not seeing each other Blah and Yes thank you all for Your advice I just wanted too see if msn is that bad So ill try in person but if that doesn't work then ill have to Resort to a bad way
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    Jan 26, 2008, 11:44 AM
    I have never heard of being to busy to break up. Send him a note, and be done with it, because I'll bet he knows already. If you never see him again will that mean your still together??
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    Jan 26, 2008, 02:09 PM
    Yea you should... tell him and end it now rather then dragging it along.
    That's never any good ;/

    Hmm I don't think it will mean they are together.. I guess after awhile they would start seeing other people.
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