Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    gary84's Avatar
    gary84 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Apr 19, 2013, 07:39 PM
    My fiancée stopped giving sex and doesn't cuddle me or nothing.
    I have been with my fiancée 5 years our sex life was great but 2 year ago she stopped having sex and cuddling me she don't even kiss me no more.

    But I have 2 kids with her and if I break up with her she won't let me see my kids so I don't know what to do she even takes all my money and leave me with nothing.
    Alty's Avatar
    Alty Posts: 28,317, Reputation: 5972
    Pets Expert
     
    #2

    Apr 19, 2013, 07:44 PM
    So you want to leave? Are there other issues other than the lack of sex, and the money? Have you talked to each other about these issues?

    For many women sex is not longer a priority once they have children, especially if they're the main caretakers, not only of the children, but the home as well. Being a mom is a full time job. Do you help with the kids, the housework, the cooking, the cleaning?

    Remember that for a woman sex is emotional. If you can't get into our heads, you won't get into our pants. If we're mentally and physically exhausted, we won't be in the mood to give the man what he wants. Help around the house, be kind and understanding, and talk to her about how you feel. If you start with "I want sex, and you never give it to me" I hope you have a comfy couch because that's were you'll be sleeping. Put yourself in her shoes.
    gary84's Avatar
    gary84 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #3

    Apr 19, 2013, 07:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    So you want to leave? Are there other issues other than the lack of sex, and the money? Have you talked to each other about these issues?

    For many women sex is not longer a priority once they have children, especially if they're the main caretakers, not only of the children, but the home as well. Being a mom is a full time job. Do you help with the kids, the housework, the cooking, the cleaning?

    Remember that for a woman sex is emotional. If you can't get into our heads, you won't get into our pants. If we're mentally and physically exhausted, we won't be in the mood to give the man what he wants. Help around the house, be kind and understanding, and talk to her about how you feel. If you start with "I want sex, and you never give it to me" I hope you have a comfy couch because that's were you'll be sleeping. Put yourself in her shoes.
    I just can't make her happy as she throws it back in my face I do love her

    I do help with the kids and cleaning its me who cooks she even hits me for no reason and argues but I never hit women so I just take it
    Alty's Avatar
    Alty Posts: 28,317, Reputation: 5972
    Pets Expert
     
    #4

    Apr 20, 2013, 10:07 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by gary84 View Post
    I do help with the kids and cleaning its me who cooks she even hits me for no reason and argues but I never hit women so I just take it
    If she's abusive you need to get out of this relationship. Just because you're a man and she's a woman, doesn't mean she should be allowed to hit you. Abuse is abuse, and no one should stay in that sort of relationship.

    You mentioned that you stay because you don't want to lose your children. What makes you think you'll lose them? The children don't automatically go to the mother, especially if the father is the better parent.

    From now on, when she hits you, call the police, have her charged. This will give you documentation about the kind of wife and mother she is.

    It won't be easy, but if you continue to do nothing, you're accepting her treatment of you. Is she also abusive with the children?
    talaniman's Avatar
    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
    Expert
     
    #5

    Apr 20, 2013, 11:15 AM
    Time to go and let the court sort it out. Does she work? Sex sound like the least of your problems.

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Fiancé Stopped Giving Oral Sex [ 6 Answers ]

My fiancé and I have been together a total of a year and a half. We had an amazing sex life. He and I both like kinky sex, too. For the first 6 months he performed oral almost every time we had sex, and I do for him, too. All of a sudden, he stopped doing it. Or when we are in the middle of sex...

My boyfriend doesn't want to cuddle, have sex or kiss [ 6 Answers ]

We have been together 3yrs and have a 20month son. The sex has dried up after I gave birth and was painful for about 3months post birth but hasn't gone back to a regular thing. He doesn't like me drinking alcohol which I have been doing more regularly as I'm stuck in this rut wherever he actually...

My boyfriend never wants to kiss, cuddle or have sex with me, but he says he attracte [ 6 Answers ]

My boy friend never wants to kiss, cuddle or have sex with me, but he says he is attracted to me, is this normal?


View more questions Search