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    Nov 10, 2013, 02:34 PM
    Fell for a girl over the internet. What should I do?
    So about two years ago I had my only female friend move three states away, but we kept in touch over Facebook. One day she invited me to a group chat to meet some of the new people she met. After a while of talking and getting to know each one of them most of them had to leave including my friend. Leaving only myself and one other the friends she made over at her new school. We talk for a while after the group chat was over and friended each other. We had been talking for a few months after that before we moved to video chatting. We got to know each other very well and found out we have a lot in common. And we kind of told each things no one else knows about us.

    It started at off as just getting to know one other and enjoying the conversation it wasn't until a few months ago that I actually started to fell like I liked her as more that a friend I. A week ago I decide to tell her feeling like I needed to get it off my chest and to my disbelief she admit that she feel the same way. We constantly talk and enjoy each other, but she lives more that 14 hours away so the likely hood of us ever getting the chance to me is next to impossible. She's a senior in high school and I'm a freshmen just starting college. I really do like her personality, but I'm I just going to end up hurting her and myself if I want more? I mean what should I do, I feel like trying to have a long distance relationship especially one over video chatting can't have a way of working? I don't want to hurt her in anyway.
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    Nov 10, 2013, 05:24 PM
    Can't you just stay video buddies until you are both older? I mean you both should be out in the real world enjoying your youth as you prepare for your futures.
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    Nov 11, 2013, 03:16 AM
    Agreed - stay friends but cut back on the intensity and time. You both need to be out more with people in person. No matter how 'close' two people are online, it isn't real.
    As a senior, she should be already making decisions about college or what she's going to do next year - do you know?

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