Hey up I was in a relationship with this girl for a year and a half and thought she was the one she had 2 kids, I was 23 she was 30 but for me that didn't matter with how much I loved her, I no she has played me, she cheated on me after the 2 month we were together when I was on holiday with the lads I found out this when I was actually on holiday but when I rang her she denied it to the death so I believed it!
Anyway we carried on then 3 months later the truth actually came out and she did cheat on me, she come across as distraught and so upset and told me she was just scared to lose me that's why she lied, she said it was the biggest mistake in her life so me like a softy took her back and believed everything she said but then I think after that the trust was gone, we eventually split up after about 5 months after me finding out and she got back with her ex ( the kids father of 13 years ) and I moved on and started to get back on scene with my mates, she was still txting me but for me that was just her finding it hard to let go so didn't try to think about it to deep but then the day come again about 7 weeks later were I told her she had to stop txting me because I just wanted to move on and she wasn't helping things but then she was telling me she made a bad mistake getting back with her ex and wanted me back so much and wanted it to work this time, I took her back because honestly I did still love her and really did want it to work but then after about 2-3 weeks off lust it just seemed we were falling back into the same state of minds we were in before I couldn't trust her but I didn't want to lose her! We have now eventually broke up and she as gone back to her ex again so for me it's defiantly over and no in my heart it's over I just want her out my head so I can get my life back on track, any helpful advice would be very muchly appreciated. Thank u

You can't let go because you keep accepting her texts. STOP all communication of any kind. It sounds like she just reels you back in when things go the slightest bit wrong with someone else. It's time to be angry and resentful about being used.

Your probably right I do need to stop all communication I guess it was just hard for me because I loved her and thought in back of my mind we could find happiness one day mind all what's gone off but I do no what I need to do I just need to man up and think about myself for once. Thank u for the comment