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    Dec 9, 2007, 01:17 PM
    Ex seen me on Friday
    Ok so I'm in a local restaurant / bar. Having a drink before I go to work at a bar. So I'm in this bar about to go to work at my bar "confusing lol" and one of my ex girlfriend comes up and tells me she is there. I look at my buddy and say "dude we gotta go" he said why and I said we just go to go. Finished my drink paid my bill and left. My question to all of you is I was clearly there first. If she really didn't care 2 things. If she didn't care she could have said to her girlfriend "oh there he is lets go some where else" But no that is not what she did. She wanted to make it known that she was there. Or she could have just walked into the dinning room part of the restaurant and I would have never seen her. Why play this game? Also do you think it got on her nerves that I was content to just pick up and leave with out trying to speak to her or even ask about her..
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    Dec 9, 2007, 03:25 PM
    Any oppinions? I mean she didn't have to send her friend overto me. She could have left or not even said or done anything...
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    Dec 9, 2007, 03:35 PM
    Yeah she didn't have to send her friend over. That was rude. She could have just sat down in the dining room. Seems she is just playing games and that is just wrong.
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    Dec 10, 2007, 10:08 AM
    I would have least said hi and excused myself, went back to what I was doing, kind of rude on your part, but I guess you saved yourself from any games she may have been playing, but look at the questions your mind has been bring up.
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    Dec 10, 2007, 12:54 PM
    What questions has my mind brought up. If I would have went over to her she would have had me arrested. We are going threw a ugly custody battle and she would have had something done.
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    Dec 10, 2007, 03:07 PM
    Not if you keep your cool, but I can see where you did the right thing for you.
    One of my ex girlfriend comes up
    THAT EX, Sorry, I lost count.
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    Dec 10, 2007, 06:33 PM
    Sorry I should have been more clear. One of my ex's friends came up to me.
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    Dec 11, 2007, 07:15 AM
    You have done right to avoid a problem. Until the dust settles, and you have a clear cut decree from a judge, its best to leave her alone, and do nothing to hurt your position. The stakes are to high to mess it up in a moment of impulse, or anger.
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