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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:25 PM
    My ex kept making eye contact
    Just curious saw my ex he kept making eye contact in fact even caught him staring.The only thing is he looks on his own in front of others but he won't call.I'm so confused.Can someone help me?
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:27 PM
    He was staring at you? Why would that mean he's going to call? I'm confused?

    He was probably looking at you because he knows you, and you're his ex, and it's awkward to see your ex.

    If you want to talk to him, call him, but don't expect him to call you just because he looked at you.

    Good luck.

    Wait a minute.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ex-701219.html

    You're married. Why are you trying to get back together with your ex?
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    He was staring at you? Why would that mean he's going to call? I'm confused?

    He was probably looking at you because he knows you, and you're his ex, and it's awkward to see your ex.

    If you want to talk to him, call him, but don't expect him to call you just because he looked at you.

    Good luck.
    I didn't say that it indicate he had to call.No people don't just keep making eye contact the entire time.He sees me all the time so its not awkward.I was doing something when I looked up he had been looking at me.Even with others around.I said I was confused on calling because if it had anything to do with him trying hook up its not like if he calls me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Wait a minute.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ex-701219.html

    You're married. Why are you trying to get back together with your ex?
    I didn't say I was trying get back with my ex I asked why would he be starring and making eye contact but he do that and its not like he calls.Never said above I even wanted him.#2Im no longer married.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lisa1471 View Post
    I didn't say that it indicate he had to call.No people don't just keep making eye contact the entire time.He sees me all the time so its not awkward.I was doing something when I looked up he had been looking at me.Even with others around.I said I was confused on calling because if it had anything to do with him trying hook up its not like if he calls me.
    Why are you still so obsessed with your ex, and why are you spending any time thinking about him at all? You're married, both you and your husband are cheaters, I read your other threads. I thought you were trying to have a healthy marriage.

    Thinking about every little thing your ex does, is not the way to move on and save your marriage.

    You have to decide what you want. Do you want your husband, or do you want your ex lover? If it's your husband, then stop doing what you're doing. You're giving way way way too much thought about your ex and the things he does. It's not good.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Why are you still so obsessed with your ex, and why are you spending any time thinking about him at all? You're married, both you and your husband are cheaters, I read your other threads. I thought you were trying to have a healthy marriage.

    Thinking about every little thing your ex does, is not the way to move on and save your marriage.

    You have to decide what you want. Do you want your husband, or do you want your ex lover? If it's your husband, then stop doing what you're doing. You're giving way way way too much thought about your ex and the things he does. It's not good.
    First of all slow down.When was last time you saw ne on her le?If you read my post my ex husband now I can say was cheater how healthy was that?#2Im not thinking about ex I asked because its something that just happened.

    I ask one question about an ex I never mentionand I'm obsessed. Lol Do you read before responding?
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:45 PM
    Originally Posted by lisa1471
    I ask one question about an ex I never mentionand I'm obsessed. Lol Do you read before responding?
    She might have had trouble understanding your posts. I am.

    When was last time you saw ne on her le.?
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lisa1471 View Post
    I ask one question about an ex I never mentionand I'm obsessed. Lol Do you read before responding?
    Yes, I do.

    Have you read all your questions on this site? Most of them are asinine questions about holding hands during sex and what it means, about telling a man that your vagina is his and whether it will scare him off, and other ridiculous things that I really never thought I'd read. I can't even begin to describe the level of immaturity and lack of intelligence that would be needed in order for someone to ask the questions you constantly ask.

    But, we come here and answer, even though your questions really aren't questions that even need an answer.

    As for you being obsessed, yes, I think you are. Otherwise why are you constantly thinking about and posting about your ex, and worrying about every little thing he does?

    I'd worry more about your marriage and less about your exes if I were you.

    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    When was last time you saw ne on her le. ?????
    It doesn't get any better than that TJ. In fact, it gets worse. :(
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:52 PM
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    It doesn't get any better than that TJ. In fact, it gets worse. :(
    Can you please help me decipher that? I'm still stumped!
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lisa1471 View Post
    First of all slow down.When was last time you saw ne on her le?If you read my post my ex husband now I can say was cheater how healthy was that?#2Im not thinking about ex I asked because its something that just happened.
    The last time, before this post, that you were on here, was November 20, 2012. That's less than 2 months ago. At that time you implied that you and your husband were still together. Of course, we can only go by implication since all of your posts are next to impossible to decode.

    Yes, your husband (when did he become an ex? That's always been a major problem with your threads, no one can tell if you're married, divorced, trying to save your marriage, etc. etc. again due to your writing skills or lack thereof), is a cheater, as are you. In fact, if I remember correctly, you cheated first. Healthy to admit that you're both cheaters? I think it would be more healthy to get help with your obvious issues.

    Yes, you are thinking about this ex. You're thinking about him so much that you started a thread about him! I don't post a question about every event that happens in my life, unless it means something to me, and it's something I'm thinking about. So why would you post unless you're thinking about him? You want to know why he was looking at you, and why he hasn't called you, if I decoded your question properly.

    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Can you please help me decipher that? I'm still stumped!
    When was last time you saw ne on her le.?
    I'm guessing that it means "when was the last time you saw me on here?"

    But I could be wrong. I have to admit, I'm not very good at decoding gibberish.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    The last time, before this post, that you were on here, was November 20, 2012. That's less than 2 months ago. At that time you implied that you and your husband were still together. Of course, we can only go by implication since all of your posts are next to impossible to decode.

    Yes, your husband (when did he become an ex? That's always been a major problem with your threads, no one can tell if you're married, divorced, trying to save your marriage, etc. etc., again due to your writing skills or lack thereof), is a cheater, as are you. In fact, if I remember correctly, you cheated first. Healthy to admit that you're both cheaters? I think it would be more healthy to get help with your obvious issues.

    Yes, you are thinking about this ex. You're thinking about him so much that you started a thread about him! I don't post a question about every event that happens in my life, unless it means something to me, and it's something I'm thinking about. So why would you post unless you're thinking about him? You want to know why he was looking at you, and why he hasn't called you, if I decoded your question properly.
    Where does the new baby mentioned a few months back come into the picture?
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    Jan 4, 2013, 04:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    When was last time you saw ne on her le. ?????
    I'll venture a guess and say, "When was the last time you saw me on here?" ***ADDED Alty beat me to the draw.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I'll venture a guess and say, "When was the last time you saw me on here?" ***ADDED Alty beat me to the draw.
    Definitely, both of you deserve a prize! I was reading through the threads... divorced, sex buddy, married and cheating husband, new baby, single, ex, I'm exhausted!
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Where does the new baby mentioned a few months back come into the picture?
    It's probably an ex too. ;)

    That's the major problem with this poster. She posts, and writes very poorly, she doesn't seem to realize that we read other posts she made, to get the bigger picture, and if you read all of her posts, nothing makes sense. She's either married, or not, she cheated, her husband cheated, there's a baby, they were working it out but she's still having sex with her lover, then she's obsessed by everything either her husband or lover does during sex and what it means, now she's suddenly divorced etc. etc. It's enough to give you a headache.

    Who really knows what the truth is? At this point I'm not even sure Lisa knows.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:02 PM
    What on earth ate you talking about?I asked one question.Ex boyfriend no ex husband.Read title.Only asked one question.. duh
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lisa1471 View Post
    What on earth ate you talking about?I asked one question.Ex boyfriend no ex husband.Read title.Only asked one question ..duh
    We're reading your old posts. We can see them, you know.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lisa1471 View Post
    What on earth ate you talking about?I asked one question.Ex boyfriend no ex husband.Read title.Only asked one question ..duh
    You've only asked one question? Okay then, who posted all the other questions under your username?

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...if-717401.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ex-715783.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ex-701219.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...me-712260.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...er-670114.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...an-653739.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ut-651936.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...rs-650777.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...on-650370.html

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/childr...ty-649352.html

    And 12 more. I don't feel like posting the rest.

    Most of the questions are about your husbands cheating, your cheating, your lover, questions about sex that are ridiculous, etc. etc.

    In other words, this latest question is just another in a long line of asinine questions you've already asked.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ou-600970.html

    Here. Here's another one of your questions that deals with a man staring at you.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:10 PM
    Where's the baby from April, 2012?
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Where's the baby from April, 2012?
    I adopted it.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 05:12 PM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...es-650006.html

    This isn't the first time we've asked for the truth, but we never get an answer.

    Where is your baby? When did you divorce your husband? Are you still with your lover?

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/childr...ty-649352.html

    Well at least the baby is intact.

    Everyone want to see our baby.Intact
    I would hope they keep it intact. ;)

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...on-650370.html

    Another thread about men staring.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...an-653739.html

    This isn't the first time she's been asked to write clearly, and to stop telling different stories.

    Let's face it, this poster is a troll. It's amazing that she hasn't been banned by now.

    Lisa, it's time to come clean, tell the truth.

    Were you ever married, or did you make it all up? Do you have a baby, or is that made up too? Was there ever an affair, or is he your imagination too?

    If I had to guess, based on your writing skills (I use that term loosely), your questions, I'd guess you're a bored teenager that has nothing better to do, and isn't smart enough to realize that we can read everything she's ever posted on this site.

    So tell the truth, because no one is buying it, we never did.
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    Jan 4, 2013, 06:17 PM
    Wait, I am very confused.

    Lisa, what is your question?

    Was he staring at you?

    Also, how old are you?

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