Originally Posted by
LonelyAndHurt
even if he walks out he'll be coming right back to me because I'm the only one that makes him feel whole and all that crap.
But our relationship went bad because we never did anything together. Everything I suggested we did he didn't want to do..But now that he's with this new girl he does all of it...
In my mind he still loves me, but since he has this new girlfriend that is younger and less mature I feel like he thinks that he'd be happier staying the her since there is less responsibilities and he isn't being pushed to better himself.
You said it yourself, he is unable to care for you - he's just out to stroke his own ego and control others.
Forget about 'in your mind' - you are so hurt right now you cannot think logically - so how can you trust your own mind at this time. It is your emotions and fear of rejection and being alone that is forcing you to lie to yourself.
Honey, get over him, dump him, and start the healing process that millions of us go through and survive. You are not unique or alone in this, just a bad chapter in your real world.
You deserve better, so start working on that.
All the best, and keep us posted. Don't forget to read the regular postits on relationships and no contact. Honest, they do help.
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