My ex-girlfriend wants to be friends
Asked Jan 24, 2012, 08:38 PM
I was just wondering if I could get some advice on this. About 3 months ago my ex broke up with me saying she wasn't happy and needed time to alone and needed to get her anxiety check. Before this we had been dating for 1year 8months. Now about 5 days ago she texts me saying she is sorry for everything which has happened and about the way she acted. I asked how she was and we just started to talk each other throughout the days. The night we started talking to each other again we saw each other and talked in person for about an hour or so and before we left each other she gave me a long extended hug.
The next day she wanted me to come over and wanted to have sex. I mentioned that I wasn't sure about it all and that we should just hangout again. Something ended up coming up and we didn't hangout that day. We have been talking to each other since and she mentioned that she has always been "interested" in me and wouldn't be against a relationship if it had gotten to that point.
Today we were just casually talking and she mentioned that she was having a hard time in college and work and all and I offered to give her a massage the next time we were to hang out. She replied that she didn't want that and that she did not want any affection or emotions from anybody and said that if this were to happen then emotions would be brought up. I mentioned the whole sex thing and she said that she wouldn't have regretted it but it would have been a mistake and she was talking off impulse.
She then said that she likes us texting and being friends and not to be mad at her, she likes me in her life. What should I do about this? I still have feelings for her.
Last edited by talaniman; Jan 25, 2012 at 02:49 PM.