We have been broken up for nearly 3 months now. Knew each other for over 7 years on and off type thing. Don't need to get into that! She dated someone recently, but was a rebound in my eyes, now is single again. She tends to ignore me at times, but then calls me. Says she loves me, then stops saying it. Says I need to fix my issues in my personal life and take care of my ex wife issues as well. Also, problem is Im still married and just separated which is causing a bit of in security on her part which I understand, but I do not love my ex anymore and love this girl only! Well, she NC me for the last 2 weeks and now just calls out of the blue again. You see, she has tried to let me go several times before because of my status back then. But never was able to. Any advice on what she might want. She is currently living out of state right now because she too has obligations and needed to get away from all the drama.

Seems pretty clear to me, she wants you to handle your business so she can see a future, without all the baggage, and drama you carry, so she checks in, but I doubt she waits forever.

Did you cheat on the ex with her?