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xoalyssaxoxo · Apr 14, 2010, 04:48 PM

Me and my boyfriend went out for 2 months. Then I wasn't feeling it anymore so I broke up with him. I didn't realized I still liked him and he still like me. He asked me back out about 3 weeks after the break up. I had to break up with him again because he flirted with my best friend. After that I realized I didn't like him anymore and he wasn't the one. Its been 2 months and I haven't loved anyone else. Its like something is stopping me. I still ask myself the question is he the one. Is he the one stopping me from loving other people? Is he the one?

the_original · Apr 15, 2010, 06:27 AM

No one is stopping you... your just not ready yet. Don't worry about finding a boyfriend or finding love, it will find you when you are happy and the time is right. Its natural to have doubts so soon after a relationship has ended, but you have admitted that you don't feel he's the one... so plain and simple: he's not. Just live your life and be happy single, everyday that passes brings you a day closer to the person who you ARE supposed to be with

I wish · Apr 15, 2010, 06:28 AM

How old are you? A 2 month relationship is not long at all. You've only been recovering from the break up for 2 months, which isn't long at all.

There are 6 billion other people in the world. Until you've met them all, I doubt you'll know who the one really is.

What you want is to find someone who makes you happy. Not someone who gives you so many doubts.

talaniman · Apr 15, 2010, 06:16 PM

There is nothing wrong with you. You are just recovering from a failed relationship, where you were betrayed by a lousy boyfriend is all. It will get better, but it takes time.

friend4u178 · Apr 15, 2010, 07:00 PM

Plenty of good guys out there and you'll find the one you love when your not even looking.

You've tried with this guy twice and it didn't work , there are obviously reasons for that , what makes you think it would be different the 3rd time around.

Just be patient.