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    sanfranbeat Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 16, 2012, 07:24 AM
    Dumped and ignored
    I met someone a few months ago and although it was a short relationship things moved pretty fast. It became the perfect relationship with everything going right.
    Dates were great, times were great, intimacy was great.
    BUt then suddenly a curveball gets thrown and someone steals her credit card info. And it just so happened to happen on a night I was with her( I was up and she was already in bed). She lost trust in me just like that and I didn't do it. For some online sites I would never touch.
    Anyway she brought up that there were some incompatibilities that were realized suddenly on our last date and all via email and then I never heard from her again.

    Its been only a couple weeks since. I sent a couple texts and one email in reply one and two days after just to clear some thoughts without aggravating the situation.

    But is there anything I can do? Its upsetting being accused of something I didn't do, especially since all I did was give. Given much more than was taken from her for sure.

    Any advice would be appreciated because I've been dumped before but this situation is totally different.
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    Oct 16, 2012, 09:05 AM
    Why would you even want to get back in touch with someone who would accuse you of such an action. Forget about her and move on, you deserve much better.
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    Oct 16, 2012, 09:20 AM
    Totally agree and thank you, its great to hear that from someone neutral.
    SHe obviously has some issues from the past but it just bothered me that I had to be told by email and not to my face. Of course I was pissed but I still try to talk out thoughts rationally and then move on no matter whom its with. SOme people don't.
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    Oct 16, 2012, 09:43 AM
    A lot of people have a hard time expressing their feelings in person, I'm guilty of it. For now, just accept that it wasn't mean to be and that you deserve much better.
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    Oct 16, 2012, 10:55 AM
    Life is to damn short for crap like this, leave her in the rear view and keep it moving.

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