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theanon1234 · May 13, 2012, 05:08 PM

So I got dumped. I feel crushed. I feel pain. I feel lost. I don't like myself right now.

Short background. We go out. I like her. She didn't want a relationship to begin with. I knew this and pursued. Stupid, I know. We have been on and off a couple times. I just don't give up.

Recently she said she didn't think this would work out. I said let's just take some time and give her space. Saw her last night and a few texts later she is done with me.

I am doing everything I can to not contact her. Is this the right move? I want her badly. I am just feeling weak and worthless. Advise as you see fit. And yes I know I should have not attempted to win her heart in the first place, but I did. So now I need to do what? Try again or deal with this awful pain? What I want to know is there really any hope of winning her back?

LadySam · May 13, 2012, 07:22 PM

We've all been dumped at one time or another. Some of us more than we care to admit.
Don't call her, don't text, don't go to places "hoping" to run into her.
She has already moved forward and so should you.
It won't be easy, but you will get over it.
You took a chance, no shame in that, but a chance is defined as an unknown or unpredictable element.

talaniman · May 13, 2012, 09:34 PM

Leave her alone, and in time, you will get beyond this and find better things to do. Hey you tried, it didn't work. Some people don't even get chance. Getting dumped does suck though, for a while, but just for a while.