I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years, and I just don't feel anything for him anymore. When we make love I don't feel any passion or anything, it has been like this for quite some time. I don't feel that I love him, or that I really want to be with him, everything he does irritates me. We've tried to work through things but we're getting nowhere and he just doesn't seem to see it. I think he still loves me, because whenever I suggest a break he gets all upset and says he's doesn't feel any different towards me. We are engaged and I don't really want to marry him now either (we got engaged quite early on in the relationship.) I have recently started a new job and made lots of new friends I like to got out with clubbing etc, and I don't know if this may have something to do with it. There's just no excitement any more, I've though numerous times about breaking it off, but can't go through with because we've been together for so long. I don't want to hurt him but I feel stuck in a rut. Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.