Okay I need help?? I was moving to play softball for a university. I met this guy at one of my friends house. Lets call him mike. I saw him checking me out and I was doing the same, because he was cute. We talked and everything and it just happen I made the move to kiss him. We kissed and that's all we did. The next day I hung out with my friends house again and he happen to be there. I didn't think to say hi to him because everybody was talking. It just happen he thought I was trying to ignored him and he starting talking to my best friend. So I Kind of GOT MAD, so I didn't let bother me and I was talking to his friend lets call him james. Me and James were just friends in all, but I could tell mike got a little mad. It just happen that we kind of tried to talk about are miscommunicate with each other. But after that night we didn't talk after that, because he started talking to my best friend. WELL I stayed home and 3 weeks later my friend said oh text mike on your phone to see what's up wit him tonight. SO I got the number from her and he never texted back until the next moring and I explain this wasn't my best friend. But we kept texting in all and we started talking on the phone. At the time my best friend was already talking to somebody else and didn't really have feelings for mike. BUT when she found we were talking she said she had feelins for him. So I told him that we shouldn't talk anymore. Because I had feelings for him. But we kept talking but not that much, just textin. I Kind of took a break away from best friend. Me and her talked and she said she told mike that they shouldn't talk anymore. WELL A WEEK LATER SHE TOLD ME THAT MIKE had CAME OVER TO MY HOUSE TO GET HIS MOVIES. He stayed at my house for a while and I made the move on him again. We kissed. I kind of stop talking to him because he made me mad. He went over to my best friend house because she called him to talk that same night. He said they really didn't talk, but I was confused if he likes me or her? So I stopped textin him and he texted me we don't talk anymore? I told him yeah. He confuse yesturday that he has feelins for me, but he didn't know how I felt about him. I don't know what to do help me!!

It seems to me that he is more interested in you than your best friend. Since he hasn't committed to a relationship with either of you, you should keep up your friendship with him for the time being. Your friendship with him will go further into a love relationship if the chemistry works between you & him.
Forget how your best friend feels about it, as Mike has the right to make a choice.

Okay the night before he wanted me to go over there and kick it wit him. But I didn't have a car and he was like I'll go pick you up. I was like then if that's the case why don't you just chill at mu house and ill go over there tomorrow night. He was okay, but then again he texts well what about your dad. I was like what about my dad. HE HAS NO REASON TO BE SCARED OF MY DAD. So I was like don't come over then I'll just see you tomorrow night. Then yesturday I was at my sister apartment and mike lives in the same apartment my sister lives in. He knew that how's I was getting over to that side to see him. So before I left I texted so what's up 4 tonight. He texted back I'll call you at 9:30 and I was okay. Well he didn't call. I texted at 10:20 saying you will going to call at 9:30, yeah right. I TOLD HIM WHATEVER >:( I had spoken to my best friend and she just happen to ask if I talk to mike and I said yeah but I didn't tell her was supposed to kickit. Then she goes oh he texted me today asking to go to the fair. She asked if he asked me and I said no because he didn't. So I was confused. I didn't get mad. Until me and her got off the phone. So I texted him that we shouldn't talk and that I hated when people says one thing and does another. I told him to take care and see him around. He didn't text back so I think we are not going to talk anymore and its probably better off. But I still confused why is he trying to get with my best friend is he so interested in me??

It can be due to 2 reasons: 1st, you & Mike had a little misunderstanding in your communication with him, & 2nd, your best friend takes the initiative to talk to him & please him, as she wants to beat you in the relationship with Mike.

I think you should just keep it cool with your best friend as she had been there longer for you than Mike. To keep everything on the safe side just be friends and let nature take its course. :)