I don't know what to do, my boyfriend does not believe me on what I say and its hurting my heart his family is putting stuff in his head and he does not believe me on what I say... what should I do?? plus we are plaining on getting married soon...

I would suggest you put off marriage until he can think for himself.

Not to smart marrying some one who doesn't believe what you say and listens to his family over you. Not good at all.