I recently broke up with my now ex-girlfriend ( I broke up with her ). A few nights ago she invited me over to her ( female ) friends house for a drink.

When I arrived at her friend's house I was greeted by a her friend's new boyfriend and on entering the house my ex came up to me and hugged me. She had just changed into sleepwear and then introduced me to her new guy friend as her friend.

The atmosphere was awkward to say the least, she then came and sat next to me on the couch and started talking to me asking me when one of my friend's new girlfriend was arriving from another city. I had told her about this previously and that I was friendly with the new girl's sister who was also coming down. She asked me about 3 times, she was very drunk.

Her new friend said that he wanted to go home but she ordered him to stay, he then stroked her hair and she lay in his arms, she tried to put her feet on my legs but I moved them away.

She then told me that her very sick mom, has only 3 months to live , her mom has cancer. She had told me that her mom was getting better so it was quite a shock to me, I tried to console her by telling her about a friend of my mom who has survived cancer recently.

I decided that it was time to go and greeted her new friend and then went outside to say to greet the other 2. My ex came running after me saying that she wants to give me a good-bye kiss, I agreed thinking that it would just be a kiss. She then tried to kiss me open mouth and I said no and pushed her away.

She has since apologised and I have responded by saying that we are friends so Im fine with it and she must look after herself so she can be there for her mom.

My question is does she still love me, I have asked this question to 3 of my girl friends ( including my ex fiancé ) and all have replied yes.

I do want to be friends with her, Im not the jealous type so it's not that I want her back or anything because she has found a love interest.

well there is your answer.



besides if the break up is recent and you're the one who left then it's not that strange that she still loves you.

Well some x's manage to be friends afterwards, but seeing as she still loves you, then maybe it will be a good idea to have some space between you so that she can get over you.

unless you want her back, or something like that... I dunnknow...

Of course she still has feelings, and will for sometime, as this is still a fresh break up to you both, but be aware, not letting her heal, will not help you be friends.

Even if she has a new interest, doesn't mean she is over you, but rebounding, trying to replace you.

Don't push the friends thing, and please don't give her false hope, that things will return to the way it was, and quiet as its kept, your not healed either. Staying apart for a while will help you both. When the emotional dust has settled, then you can see where your at.