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    LanaArcher Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 7, 2011, 08:26 PM
    Does he want me back?
    Hi,

    I really need help on this one.
    My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago today and I'm finding it so hard...
    I haven't spoken to him or seen him and I miss him like crazy.
    The other night though, I posted this song from (final fantasy viii) a video game he showed me when we were together...
    the song's title is actually my name so I decided to post it to Facebook cause I was thinking of him.
    That same night I logged on and noticed he posted a song from the same video game (final fantasy x) as well.
    His song, however was an orchestra with strings, piano and the whole sha-bang, very climatic.
    Where mine was just a guy playing the song on a piano.
    As well, he really made it clear when he broke up with me it was over.
    I have a few things that are still at his place and he told me to not come around and get them because he would bring them over.
    He hasn't brought them over and it's been making me think and hope that he doesn't want to let go.
    Do you have any idea what the song post was or why he hasn't brought my things back?
    I'm fighting the urge to call and contact him but I don't know how much longer I can go.
    I miss him with everything and I am still so in love with him.
    I want him and I to be together again. Please help.
    I'm trying to not hold on to false hope if it is.
    I've just been thinking since he was really firm on his decision... but he hasn't given me my things...
    Could this mean anything?
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    amicon Posts: 6,066, Reputation: 1911
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    Aug 7, 2011, 08:57 PM

    I'm sorry you are hurting;break ups are tough.
    He made it very clear that he was breaking up with you so disregard the FB posts and the not bringing your stuff over-stay no contact and heal-one day at the time.
    Take care.
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    ken007nielsen Posts: 288, Reputation: 211
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    Aug 7, 2011, 09:51 PM
    Nope it doesent mean anything, it's a simple link to Facebook. You just miss him, so you are looking for tiny things to give you the excuse to contact him again.

    Do yourself a favor, delete all photos, delete his number, delete him as a friend on Facebook or any other online site where you could get yourself reminded of him.

    He made it clear that he didn't want this relationship, and while you have some sort of contact with him your just going to hurt longer.

    Best of luck!
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    Aug 9, 2011, 07:58 PM

    Sorry, but I think he is serious, and its only been a week. Your wounds are still fresh and hurting.

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