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Rhianne-Ashleigh · Oct 26, 2007, 03:46 PM

Well You See...
I'll Tell You First That I Am 16...

I started going out with this guy around this time last year. We had been mates for a good few years. Then he invited me to his Halloween party, i fancied him at the time and he was single so before i had even though about it i said yes...any way that's by the by...

we started going out...he introduced me to ALL! of his family, he was really proud of me and wanted to show everyone how he felt, it was the same in school, if any of his friends said anything nasty to or about me he would get quite uptight about it... he treated me like a princess and was ALWAYS there for me if i needed some one. On CHRISTMAS! :D he took my cheek in his hand looked deep into my eyes and said he loved me, i didn't reply, but the next day told him i loved him too.

i may only be 16 but i know it was love, i have had boyfriends and i have pleanty of male friends, it was nothing like that, he ment everything for me.

However, after about 4 months, a few family problems started to pop up and i was getting really upset about them and even started to self harm..he helped me through that EVERY STEP OF THE WAY! i was amazed, but for him to see me suffering made him sad, and i couldn't stand seeing him sad so after 5 months i finished it.

i also felt as though he could do better, he dissagreed and wanted to stay with me more than anything, but i couldn't stand to put him through anymore pain.

he went out with another girl just days after i had dumped him

He is still with her and it has been about 7 months
after the first month he slept with her.

he has recently told me he only went out with her to make me jeolous.

he told me only a few days ago that he really loves me and wants me back
he says that i mean more to him than anything ever has,
he trusts me more than anyone
he said he want's me back even if we do only cuddle and talk again, as long as he's with me and i'm happy, he is.

(in the 5 months i DIDN'T sleep with him)

Does he mean it?

I'd be extreamly greatful if you could get back to me =D
It's urgent i need advice! fank yew

wallarookiller · Oct 27, 2007, 10:25 PM

Sounds like he was a great guy and you should really consider taking him back. But if you do make sure YOU treat HIM right and don't just string him along some emotional hell.

wackymb · Oct 28, 2007, 01:04 AM

Sounds like he really did love you. But, when I was your age I had a boyfriend like that and it turned out all he wanted was sex. I wouldn't give it to him and he then started ignoring me and not calling me back, etc... But, do what is in your heart. If you really think it's love, give him another chance to be with you. Like Wallarookiller said, don't put him through hell. But, it does cross my mind that he says that he loves you and after you broke up with him, he started dating this other girl and had sex with her and is still with her. That sounds crazy. But, do what you want to. Hope it all works out.