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kselbyballer14 · Jul 17, 2007, 09:00 PM

Mhkay so my ex boyfriend and I were dating for 10months, then we broke up because we were too busy && kept getting into fights. At first we were friends && stuff and we didn't really talk much because we both had the same feelings for each other but the thing is I tried to get over him with another guy and he was upset about that and I guess while I was trying to get with this other guy he tried to get with 2 other girls. Like 2months after we broke up we talked again and he was saying how he still loves me and I'll always be in his heart but when he heard about this other guy he go tall defensive but I didn't get mad about this other girl. So there was some drama that went around and we started avoiding each other. I still have hella feelings for him but he won't answer my calls or read my messages and now he's dating this other girl. What do I do? How do I know if he still loves me, or is he just trying not thing about me by getting with someone else? Will things work out for us? How do I know?

rankrank55 · Jul 17, 2007, 09:22 PM

First of all, you should not try to get over someone else by seeing another person. It sounds like you and your ex have burned a lot of bridges that can't be rebuilt the way they were before. If I were you, I would move on. Even if you were to get back together there would probably be trust issues between both of you and feelings of resentment. As I said, the best thing you can do at the moment is to just take a step back and live YOUR life; if it's meant to be it will eventually happen and if not... then it's okay, life goes on.

Skell · Jul 17, 2007, 09:46 PM

I like the above advice.
I think it is time to put this one down to a lost cause and move on. There are plenty more guys out there. Just enjoy life, smile and something will come along even better then this guy.

And rank is right. You should never use someone to get over a relationship. Not good!

talaniman · Jul 18, 2007, 09:26 AM

Stop the games, and leave each other alone. This relationship has no healthy love, or honest communications, so leave it be.

emopunk7 · Jul 18, 2007, 01:31 PM

He expects you to do nothing while he had all his fun... Doesn't that sound selfish? A bit immature? Obviously he doesn't care as much as you. The more quick you move on, the better. Soon enough, you will be so glad you did. Good luck. I wish you the best in life!

kari_ridge · Jul 7, 2010, 01:27 PM

That's what happened with me && my boyfriend. Now we are back together again. His sister talked to him for me because he wouldn't talk to me.