Does he care about me?
Asked Mar 31, 2012, 02:05 PM
I have this guy who acts like he owns me, he says I used to be his girl but he sleeps with other girls and when I rock up I just have to put up with it. He says itís just youíre different we donít use condoms. He so jealous over me but donít do anything wrong but I put all my effort into him. We have a son together also, from few years ago. He thinks Iím a yoyo so affectionate like were together but then I get ignored because heís been with someone else.
Then few days later he will slowly start calling me baby and touch me ask me for cuddles, but Iím starting to get snotty and he says Iím immature. I just feel so hurt and I donít know who or where I stand. He always says he loves me yet right a week after the other girl heís expecting to move in with me. I said no. He flirts with every girl, I feel like one in a hundred. I know he said we were just friends, but I was his girl. He still wants it that way, but I don't feel very special. He said when we are getting engaged and stuff.
When we talk about the other girls he said I just woke up to myself but I don't know why. I also feel he is an attention seeker; he acts like heís it to everyone, a bit. But when it comes down to sex I feel he chickens out a lot but itís starting to make me feel itís me. Thereís something wrong when he gets few drinks into him or few valium, and then goes with the other girls, like heís some kind of stud.
Please help I feel so stupid and donít want him hurting me anymore. Itís just so hard because he says look me in the eye and tell me you don't love me anymore, but I canít. I still care for him, but I want to know how I can just be his friend, and not get constantly hurt.
Thanks for listening :)
Last edited by talaniman; Mar 31, 2012 at 04:31 PM.