Just for curiousity. I'd like to know when a man is genuinely in love with a woman, does he constantly think of her as she would think of him?

I would think so...

Are we talking about your husband, or his brother, that your holding a torch for?

Neither one of the two. It's a general question. I'm just trying to understand how men's minds work. Are we really as different in our way of thinking? If you are willing to view the question with an open mind, then you'll see that understanding others help us to understand ourselves better and the answer lies within us. It's just a matter of digging deep to find it.

I don't think it's a boy - girl thing. There have been many, many songs written by guys who couldn't get girls out of their heads. I know women who say they don't think about their current loves all the time.

I think you'd be better off working on figuring out how this particular guy thinks.

Beautifulbrunette
Your answer sounds quite interesting. Could you please translate this French phrase into English please, my French is not that great. I would really like to know what it means.

The first phrase says 'A person must make themselves happy before another.'

And

The second phrase says 'I can't help that I'm in love with myself spiritually and emotionally. Confidence is the key to a good life with prosperity, love, respect and beauty.'

The phrase is part of her signature, not her answer.

As to your question, The difference in men and women may be exaggerated, as there are many sensitive males around, and many who think about the one they love constantly. There are also females that could care less.

Amen!