Before I get to my question here's some history about my ex-boyfriend and I. I dated my ex-boyfriend for a year the we didn't start on a good note with his mom... I had to spend the night over at another guy's house 2 weeks after he asked me out now before you get the wrong idea that I cheated on him I didn't. This other guy has been my best friend since birth and our mothers are friends and have been since elementary school. My mother didn't want me home alone over the weekend and she trusted them with me I had no other choice. I asked my mom to let me stay with a girl friend but she said no. I thought I would be a good girlfriend by telling him what was going on.

He was hurt and right then and there he broke up with me. I explained to him that I had no other choice and that I did everything in my power to go somewhere else. He understood but he had already told his mother and she didn't trust me. He tried his best to clear things up but it didn't help. He apologized for not trusting me and we got back together. We were happy together for the next 4 or so months but he had to sneak around because his mother didn't approve.

Through out the next few months we were on again and off again because his mother manipulated him. She threatened to kick him out because of me. I went on a cruise and the day before I left for sea he broke up with me and told me that his ex girlfriend was going to be at his house a lot I told him that I agreed we should break up but it was a lie.

While I was on the ship I talked to him through messages on Facebook any free time I got to get on the computer. One of the messages from him told me he missed talking to me. When I got back from vacation he explained to me why he broke up with me because of his mother. Right before school ended his sister was run over bya truck and broke her back which added more stress to him.

He talked to his mom over and over again during the summer to give me a second chance. She finally did. Once we were allowed to see each other we were always together until my mom decided that she wanted to ship me to Arizona. He didn't want me to leave at all so he proposed to me just to keep me here. We were each others first. Later on I found out I was pregnant and I miscarried. I told him. The rest of the summer I was in and out of the hospital; I was so sick. At the end of the summer-beginning of our senior year in high school and I ended up having surgery to remove my gall bladder. He broke up with me again the day before surgery. I didn't know why but we both agreed to be friends. While I was recovering from surgery I had many friends visit me on one specific day I had a girl friend hang out with me, she had met my ex one time. I was depressed that "we" were over. I started wishing out loud that someone would talk to him about why he broke up with me this time. I had no idea she had his number. She ended up sending him a really long text that basically said he was stupid for breaking up with me and she cussed him out. He didn't have her number and I was talking to him, he said he thought one of my friends was texting him and he showed his mom and she no longer trusted me again.

She told my friend that she would report her if she kept talking to him. We were both at the same school so when I went back it was awkward because we weren't talking and we go to a small school. I had met a few of his friends and they became my friends too. I went out to lunch with one of them and my ex got really mad. He messaged me on Facebook that night and told me he missed me again. We then got back together off and on again for the next month and then his best friend's little sister wholiked my ex started rumors about me going around tell everyone in school about our business. He didn't believe me when I told him I did no such thing. We fought a lot in school a lot of yelling and what not one time I confronted him and he raised his hand as if he was going to hit me. We made up but it didn't last long which leads me up to now.

It started as not talking in school but talking via Facebook; he would ask what was wrong with me. I told him he shouldn't care anymore that he broke my heart and that I wanted to stop talking (another little lie) the last thing he said to me before we stopped talking all together was that he hoped I wouldn't hurt myself and that he thought it was really sad that I thought he didn't care anymore. Now we don't talk at all and if I talk, not to him but other people he says some rude comment in return. He can't look at me; if I'm in his view he put's his backpack, or notebook or covers the side of his face so he won't have to see me. I've heard from other people and I overheard him say he hates me to his friends.

He is now friends with the girl that said all those things to him. He forgave her but not me? When I told him he hated me he agreed and walked away. But he flirted with me later on. Does my ex-boyfriend hate me or is he hurt?

What is going on with him?!

May want to try paragraphs.. that just hurt my head trying to read it.

How old are you?

And I agree with mystific,without paragraphs it's almost impossible to read your post.

It's looking like a baby love.. he broke up with you many times and whenever he says that he misses u,u went to him.. First of all he should understand you and accept you with all the mistakes you did..
Breaking up every time and again talking.. it's really bad.. I will say you just one thing.. let him go.. let him hate you.. He will realise one day and he will try to come again.. But shut your door for him.He is saying in public that he hates u,then why the hell you are bothering about someone who hates you.. Life is present and not past.. It seems he will never understand you.. so best thing is to be apart and try to concentrate on something which makes you feel better.. Leave Facebook for some days or delete him from your fndlist.. Don't ask anyone about him.just lead your life with all the people who loves you in present... Take care

You may have been each others first, but since that's over with, so is this relationship. His mom has way too much influence and the poor guy can't think for himself. You made it no better not telling or friend to butt out, but all this drama has turned things toxic between you and its time to put a period on this THE END!!

For you it will start a healing process that will make you see all the red flags you have ignored before, when you were following your heart, and your feelings, instead of the facts.

You were never in a relationship with just him, its always been a triangle between you, him, and his mama. Her influence was always greater than yours was. Always will be, and that's the FACT you must accept, HEAL, and move beyond it, to a healthier place without him.

He will be stuck in mamas apron strings for a long time. Pray for the new girl, who doesn't know what a spoiled baby he really is... YET!!

Okay this seems like a huge mess,my advice he's hurt you and still is.let go find someone else:)make his bitter and jealous don't stay tied up in his strings.lifes to short