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    Jun 2, 2009, 03:17 PM
    Do you fall in love at the same speed every time?
    Like the topic says, how quickly do you take to fall in love? Given that every other condition is about the same, would you fall in love at the same speed every time? Personally, I'm not sure. I think once we've reached a certain level of intimacy and closeness, I'm much more likely to fall in love, but I haven't had enough experience to be sure. How about you?
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    Jun 2, 2009, 03:26 PM

    One time it took me less than a minute. Another time, it took months. Every other condition is NEVER the same.
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    Jun 2, 2009, 03:48 PM
    I think it depends on the way the connection is made. Sometimes you hit it off right away with someone. Other's it takes more time.
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    Jun 2, 2009, 05:06 PM

    Depends on the situation, the person, the connection, timing, place. Everything plays a factor into the relationship and falling in love.
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    Jun 2, 2009, 05:11 PM

    That's a tough one. I agree with everyone else.

    There are guys I thought I loved pretty quick, there are others I thought I loved months later. Then there's the guy I actually loved, him I married.

    Depends on the person, the couple, the timing, the circumstances... you get the point.
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    Jun 2, 2009, 08:21 PM

    From experience, there was one guy that I hit it off with immediately. It wasn't a fling or anything either; it was serious - we stayed together for 2 years after that.

    Another guy, I met at the beginning of high school. We didn't start dating until 6 years later and it was a serious relationship also.

    It definitely differs from person to person and your current situation.
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    Jun 2, 2009, 08:35 PM
    It can also depend on how your feeling. And your emotional frame at the time. Are you ready for love. Longing for love. Lonely. Etc
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