"Whatever will be will be" is another silly way people of today give themselves permission to make stupid choices, ignore reality/facts, put their "needs/wants" ahead of anything else including right and wrong, and hang on to stupid hopes and dreams long after they've crashed and burned.
Sound cynical enough?
In truth, I can't think of a single time I've heard someone else apply that "whatever will be will be" concept properly. They think it's an effect that gives them what they hope for, and it's not.
It is a truth, however, and it means, "Some things are going to happen the way they are going to happen regardless of your personal hopes and dreams about it." See, it's not a romantic concept at all, it's a "wake up you idiot and pay attention to reality" concept.
Anyway, once you stop thinking the universe has your best interest at heart, you have a chance to do better. Not until.
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