It seems like most of the guys that I have dated lost interest in me if we started dating fairly quickly and easily. It seemed to happen even more quickly once we were in a relationship and I asked if we could go out to certain events or see certain things.

Then most of the guys that have asked me out on dates and it was difficult for us to find a time to get together were interested in me, but not me to them. So these guys didn't seem to lose interest in me.

I don't want to generalize, I just want some opinions. What does everyone think?