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    Jul 30, 2009, 09:55 AM
    Distance and Rejection
    I'm to a point in my relationship of over 1 year with my boyfriend where I don't have any more answers. We love each other very much and love to spend time together. We both have busy lives and the time when it's just us in not very much. When I do have time alone with him, we like to cuddle but almost every time he'll all of a sudden get frusterated and be like 'that's enough!' with no warning. I feel hurt and rejected and like I can't express myself and my love for him without he pushing me away. I've talked with him about this many times but it is a pattern. I've tried to distance myself from him and let him come to me, but that just makes me feel sad and is counter to my personality. Any ideas?
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    Jul 30, 2009, 10:00 AM
    You maybe should just sit him down and tell him how you feel about this. Maybe he doesn't realize he does it. You said you have busy lives. Maybe being so busy has made him grow away from you. Then when your time is together he might feel smothered and want some space. You have to talk or the distance might grow farther.
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