Hi,I am a married woman with 2 kids.Last year I got to know a man through internet.We used to chat a lot.During the chat I got to know his married life is not good.I felt very bad.During the course of time I began to love him and he too.We have never met. Although I could not live with him I wanted to love him whole my life.But after my husband knew about this he stepped back. We are not in contact and seems he is happy with his family.But it's very difficult for me to forget him.What should I do now?I had tried so many times to contact him but he doesn't want to talk to me

You don't do anything. He doesn't want to have anything to do with you. Leave him in peace.

Tick

This has nothing to do with him, it has everything to do with you being unhappy with your life. You have let yourself become involved with a complete stranger, someone you only know through the computer. Now you have confidenced yourself that you are in love with him.

You don't really know anthing about this guy except what he has told you. Obviously whatever was making him unhappy enough that he was talking to other woman over the computer is no longer a problem, and has chosen to discontinue any relationship with you. That happens a lot if you read that stickys around this site, when a married person starts entering into a relationship outside their marriage even on the computer is cheating. I know you might not think so, since you never even meet this guy, but you are emotionally involved with him. Cheating is cheating!!

You need to try and get into some marriage counseling, if your husband won't go, then at least go yourself. Listen, a lot of us need that extra help in our lives every once in a while, and there is no shame in that. You are risking your marriage, and most importantly yourself respect. What if this guy was close enough to meet what would have happened!!

You need to also realize that this guy might also be a computer predator, that just loves to get on computer give his sob story and get a unhappy woman hooked. It is a hugh EGO BOOST for them. Once they have her hooked and she has fallen for them, they are done and move on. They usually change their sign on name and move on to next victim.

You now need to make a choice to improve your life and only you can do that.

Take care

Leave his life alone, and worry about yours. This Internet romance, or whatever it was may cost you your husband.