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    Jul 22, 2012, 11:55 PM
    Dealing with desires
    I am a mother of three who has always had desires to be with a female intimately. I have a loving boyfriend, but he feels that since we did not start our relationship with the premise of my being bi-sexual, and who would feel as if he were being cheated on, would not condone my having a relationship of any manner other than friendship with a woman. I understand where he's coming from completely. So.. how do I keep my cool when the urges kick in for a female body?
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    Jul 23, 2012, 03:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by IsThatWrong View Post
    I am a mother of three who has always had desires to be with a female intimately. I have a loving boyfriend, but he feels that since we did not start our relationship with the premise of my being bi-sexual, and who would feel as if he were being cheated on, would not condone my having a relationship of any manner other than friendship with a woman. I understand where he's coming from completely. So..how do I keep my cool when the urges kick in for a female body?
    Have you told him? I think you should suggest a 3 some with him and this other lady and I would be supprised if he said no.
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    Jul 23, 2012, 04:54 AM
    Cheating is cheating, you "cool" your feelings the same way he "cools" he feelings when he sees a hot girl. Sorry being bi sexual is not an excuse to cheat,
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